I spend too much with my self. I do not talk to people about my problems and I do not have much. People say I have no feelings
and I am always quiet and speak a little.
2006-07-03 05:46:55 · 24 answers · asked by Raphael A 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
It's all about perception!
Your wording and formulation of this question suggest that you do your best to sound 'politically correct' but in the end I highly doubt if you'll be able to get the REAL answer you're looking for.
Good luck!
2006-07-03 05:57:04 · answer #1 · answered by Roland 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Analyze why you're this way. Do your parents have the same personality? Was your childhood out of the norm?
Have you tried therapy? There are some things that are better left to experts. However if therapy is not for you, try making new friends that don't judge you so easily. Maybe the people that you hang out with are holding you back in addition to your own personality which holds back the "real" you.
Try doing something out of the ordinary that will put you in a totally different environment. Try traveling on your own. Take an art or cooking class. Do something new where your personality has a chance to express itself and be free without being around familiar people and surroundings.
2006-07-10 11:42:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very likely, that's your personality and there's nothing wrong with you.
The only time you must be concerned is, when you actively AVOID talking to people, and start taking steps so that you don't have to talk to people. Let's say your friends invite you to go out for an ice-cream or something. You say no, because you don't want to be outside or be seen by someone.
With that said, you should work on being people. I do not know how old you are, but later on in your life, there will be a time you will need to talk to friends and seek help for problems. Perhaps you can help others. You can pick a few good friends to do this. You don't have to be friends with everybody.
2006-07-03 12:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by tkquestion 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you just because your not an open book. Someday you'll find somebody that you'll look forward to opening up too (your soul mate).
Until then try alittle to open up to close Friends and family so they feel alienated, and don't only talk about this stuff to people on line, keep it real in reality, like you would if you were in private typing away! Best wishes
2006-07-03 12:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by tonafun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a lot like me. We are what some people call 'introverts'...there are pros and cons to being an introvert, and one of the things we must try to do to get along with other people, is that when/if we do talk, we must try to mix the conversation with ourselves and the other person. In other words, it's too easy to talk about ourselves, because we know ourselves so well...yet we're very concerned about ourselves..our ego, our motives, our self-respect, our mental health! hehe
I wouldn't feel too bad about it, just do the best you can! Good luck.
2006-07-03 12:51:04 · answer #5 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. i'm goin to be straight on this. u're pretty much playing a "safe" way of not getting rejected by people, unknowingly i think? but fret not, you're aware of your problem! i can sense that you really wanna speak up to people. but the thing is, everyone is like u!! they are only interested in themselves!! they care more about the ache in their tooth rather then the flood at the china shores. human nature thingy :) So. let others talk about themselves ya...and U.. LIsten to them!! lots of people are dying to be heard! God gave us two ears for a reason...and he gave eve to adam to..so who knows which girl would be attracted to u upon doing this :D Cheerios!
2006-07-03 13:24:47 · answer #6 · answered by williamtan1984 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be shy or more introverted than others. If the thought of speaking to someone freaks you out completely beyond belief, then you may have social anxiety disorder, and I recommend you see a doctor about it.
2006-07-03 12:50:54 · answer #7 · answered by zippythejessi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. You just sound shy. Maybe people find it hard to get to know you sense you speak only a little. Speak up but remember to be yourself. Remember people do want to know your opinion.
2006-07-03 12:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by Pits4Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is probably nothing wrong with you. You sound shy. You can overcome that by building your confidence. Set some reachable goals for yourself and as you accomplish them your confidence will increase. Then set some bigger goals and go for them.
2006-07-03 12:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by PHP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong with you, just sounds like you have low confidence and low self esteem. Start by talking with friends and people you feel comfortable with and build up
2006-07-03 12:52:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋