my sister makes a joke that i fall in love more than once in a day because when i see a very good looking man i cant help melting, especially if he looks my way and smile (oh my lord just heavenly), my partner gets jealous but why should he when he's comming home with me, i'm not going anywhere or going to run off and do anything with anyone else, so wheres the problem, why cant i look and dont touch where's the harm in that, tell me what you think please.
2006-07-03 05:45:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
looking is normal. everyone does it.
2006-07-03 05:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by scorpio11120 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU !!!! IF HE LOVES HE SHOULD NOT BE INSECURE... YOU COME HOME TO HIM YOU DO NOT HAVE SECRETS FROM EACH OTHER.... THERE SHOULD NOT BE A PROBLEM.... I LOOK ALL THE TIME AND DO NOT TOUCH.... ITS CALLED SELF CONTROL.... WE SEE FINE MEN ON TV ALL THE TIME THAT DOESN'T MEAN THAT WE ARE GOING TO RUN TO WHATEVER STATE THEY LIVE IN WHILE FILMING, TO STALK THEM UNITL THEY WANT US... I MEAN WHAT DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND THINK.... I SUGGEST SIT DOWN AND HAVE A SERIOUS CONVERSATION ABOUT THE SITUATION.... TAKE HIM TO A PUBLIC PLACE AND TALK LIKE THE ADULTS YOU ARE.... CLEAR THE AIR.... EXPLAIN THAT THERE IS NO NEED FOR DOUBT YOU ARE COMMITED TO HIM AS LONG AS HE IS COMMITED TO YOU.... AND MAKE HIM BELIEVE IT.... AND THE FACT THAT YOUR SISTER IS SAYING THINGS LIKE THAT AROUND HIM SOUNDS TO HIM LIKE SHE KNOWS MORE THAN SHE IS SAYING SO MAKE SURE YOUTALK TO HER ALSO... TELL HER IF THOUGH IT MAY HAVE BEEN A JOKE THAT THE STATEMENT IS CAUSING STRIFE IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP.... AND NOT TO MAKE MENTION OF IT ANYMORE AROUND HER MAN... ( WHEN SHE SAID THAT IN FROM OF HIM,F HE DIDN'T HAVE DOUBTS SHE CREATED THEM RIGHT THERE)... SO BE CLEAR TO HER ALSO... AFTER THE TALK I THINK YOU BOTH WILL BE ALL RIGHT...... GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS... SOUNDS LIKE HE IS A KEEPER..... OH YEAH AND NO SLIP UPS PLEASE ITS HARD ENOUGH FINDING A GOOD MAN BUT A MAN THAT HAS BEEN BURNED IS NO GOOD TO ANYONE.....
2006-07-03 05:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by rawdawgsgo_hard2005 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me baby there's nothing wrong with that! I feel that there is nothing wrong with a little (or a lot ) of looking, especially if what your looking at looks damn good, shoot, you got yourself a winner. I do it all the time. I too have a jealous friend that acts like that, but hey, they'll get over it (if their truly your friend). Everyone has a little jealousy in them, its how they handle it is what makes the difference.Sooner or later your friend will get used to it and add it to apart of your personality. (add those points to outgoing). Who knows, You just might find..THE ONE!
2006-07-03 05:54:10 · answer #3 · answered by this_be_tha_grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys dont like you looking at other guys nor do women like when men look at other woman. I think its perfectly understandable because that guy wants to be the only one to make youre heart melt.
2006-07-03 05:49:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesnt matter you are making the guy your with feel bad. How would you like it if he looked at other women, and he said it doesnt matter cuase he is coming home to you? If you have a good guy dont make him feel bad because you have a wandering eye.
2006-07-03 05:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by sicilygal2581 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he is with you then don't disrespect him by "melting" when you see a good looking guy.I'm sure he looks at cute girls I think everyone does but just don't do it in front of him since it bothers him.
2006-07-03 05:50:23 · answer #6 · answered by Addie B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looking is perfectly natural, but melting?c'mon. You can control your behavior and especially if it's negatively affecting the one you love.
2006-07-03 05:48:02 · answer #7 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way every time i see one its like oh wow but men get jealous no matter what you do, but hes gotta remeber were only human and woman have lust too
2006-07-03 05:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by RuKuS 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no problem at all-and your not only one. funny too-seems more you done look-hotties everywhere, then when you want one never around. and trust me, partner is noticing hot women as much or more. jealousy sux, tell him to get over it
2006-07-03 05:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ok to look at the other people!
2006-07-03 05:49:13 · answer #10 · answered by Sanja 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lookings natural it happens lol
theres no prob with it i think
2006-07-03 05:52:39 · answer #11 · answered by K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋