Wonder what life would be like not married or married to someone else?
2006-07-03 05:41:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
know what you mean, I am 26, been together 5 years and married 6years. All you can do is wonder or get a divorce. ~Bon
2006-07-04 18:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by Bon Bon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure and it has nothing to do with your age. I think you are asking the question the wrong way though, Think of all the wonderful things your husband has brought into your life, you have what other women your age are dying for. You were lucky enough to have found your soul mate early in life and not you can spend the rest of it building and nurturing your family and your love for this man.
Just be optimistic, is your life good? Are you happy? Count your blessings....seriously, make a list of how wonderful your life is compared to what it would be like if you weren't married.
2006-07-03 08:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Amy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wonder yeah but also think habout how lucky u r to have found someone and how so many people r single n unhappy and looking for someone to share there life with. Wonder how hurt u would be if u woke up tomorrow n ur wife was gone. And after u finish wondering make the best out of every day u spend with her n don't hold on to wondering!!
2006-07-03 05:47:19 · answer #3 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to daydream or have fantasies. But when you have an affair to fulfill it. Then you have gone too far. If there is no more love to the relationship. Try to rekindle it. Or get some therpy sessions.
We are all going to wonder, what might have been. Or if we could turn back time. But we can't go back to the past. Then again if we could go back. Then your future, might not be as good as it was the first time.
2006-07-03 05:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We have many different realities that is dependant on our choices that we have made in life. You have choosen one of them and this is where you are. If you choose to waver in this choice you can spoil this reality.
You can wonder all you want, but I would spend my energy on the present and the future. Once in ahwile is okay, but if it becomes excessive then you're walking down a slippery path to a divorce. That is, of course, a bad thing if you have kids. It's also very very expensive. It's best to stay away from "stinkin thinkin".
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Good luck and keep your feet (and your mind) firmly planted on the ground!
2006-07-03 05:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by hoyhoydc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely. You got married way too young.
2006-07-03 05:46:18 · answer #6 · answered by mr2demon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal as all people have fantasies. I don't recommend acting like you were single as if that is the only problem you have in your marraige you have a great wife
2006-07-03 05:52:20 · answer #7 · answered by uniroyalfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was married for 20 plus years...the wondering never ends!
2006-07-03 06:12:16 · answer #8 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
enjoy your wife let her know you care. try new things. it's the 7 year itch. I have had it. wait it ot it goes away after a while. We all wonder. Remember your wife might not approve of you going outside marriage so she might not forgive you as easy.
2006-07-03 05:54:13 · answer #9 · answered by mcalano77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's OK to wonder as time progresses, just don't try enforcing any of those day dreams, because that causes trouble.
2006-07-03 05:49:05 · answer #10 · answered by msthinkpositive 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋