If you're on anti-depressants with one of the side effects being not being able to orgasm, is there anything you can do?
2006-07-03 04:56:55 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I am a girl in a relationship with a guy who can't climax. It is obvbiously a great thing that we can go for ages, but it frustrates me when i finish, and he can't.
2006-07-03 12:57:04 · update #1
Why would you want to? Are you thinking of only your own pleasure. She might think that it's a pretty good idea that you can last longer.
Of course now, 4 hours might be a bit too long, but just think of all the fun you could have.
2006-07-03 05:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by rb_cubed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him used to climaxing again - so try to put your own satisfaction on the back burner for a while (it may be hard to do lol) and merely concentrate on making him orgasm. Maybe brush up on your oral skills and dedicate a session just to him, making it clear that there is no hurry for him to finish (as you are really enjoying doing this to him) and then maybe if he is relaxed enough and continuously stimulated he will orgasm. He may find it stressful trying to orgasm before you, or soon after you at the moment because he is aware of the frustration of not being able to finish after you have. This is probably making it harder for him so try to make him orgasm without you getting any for a few times. Can he orgasm through masturbation on his own?
2006-07-04 01:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not foolish things.People are trying increase the time for ejaculation.If you donot feel it is not ok use some jelly.Some positions can help attaining orgasam.Consult sexologist.The problem may be the penis is not rubbing against cleotris or G-spot.A change in position will do.Try like woman on top,legs apart.,from behind etc.
2006-07-03 17:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by leowin1948 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution is to gain control over it. As someone already said, stop when you're getting there and relax. Pay more attention to pleasuring your mate--orally, perhaps--and avoid rubbing your penis up against anything while doing so. It will take work on your part and patience on both parts. Learn here http://EndPrematureEjaculation.enle.info/?531B
As a last resort, some antidepressants curb sexual functioning with the intention of learning the pleasure of restraint after which you could taper off them. Here's your goal: the longer you can delay your orgasm, the more intense it will be. So it isn't just a matter of satisfying your mate. This is the main reason some claim stoned sex is better, unlike drunk sex which can leave you unable to perform (brewer's droop). You enjoy exploring each other longer. And remember, oral isn't just one place. It's all over, paying particular attention to kissing, and TALK about what each of you like. Strange how people don't talk about sex when they're the ones doing it.
2017-02-17 03:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask him to go see his doctor and ask to be prescribed different antidepressants that have fewer side-effects. The newer drugs tend to be very selective in their actions so may not affect his ability to ejaculate.
2006-07-08 01:11:19 · answer #5 · answered by Gavin T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm finished in 30 seconds! HOw do u make it last longer???!!!!
2006-07-03 09:03:27 · answer #6 · answered by Cody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him take the condom off.
2006-07-08 12:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Gravity Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋