My man claims i make him so mad that he wants me to leave but if i were to prepare to leave fora vacation, he calls me all the time, and when i return home hes wearing the same clothes i left him in ONE WEEK AGO!. he puts up the macho attitude about how he dosen need anyone but GOD but hes always staring at me and looking pityful...What is his issue? i mean i live with him but he will never ever put me out!!! he talks crap all day but gets jealous or is ready to defend me. i mean what is the deal here?
2006-07-03 04:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by uabgurl22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is obviously under the belief that if he lets you know that he really cares about you,you will walk all over him.Someone in the past hurt him when he opened up to them and he is afraid it will happen again.
Only when he believes he can trust you will this change.It is up to you to show him by your actions that you can be trusted.One of the easiet ways of doing this is by opening up to him.Then he will see you differently.
2006-07-03 05:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by Axewielderx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One, or both of you are co dependant. You both need to grow up and get on with life. What a joke!
2006-07-03 05:00:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure, and like someone who has the capability to be controlling if it were allowed in him.
2006-07-03 05:00:21 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds insecure and seems to lack confidence.
2006-07-03 05:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you didn't really take time to write all that...oh, guess you did....
2006-07-03 05:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋