why girls are so insecure and trust very late?

Question

i am a 22 yrs old guy,I had a lover of the same age .She was a M.B.B.S. student. her father fixed her marriage with a 27yrs old M.B.B.S. GUY who is doing m.s. now.and going to mary her after 2 yrs. so that my lover has stopped even talking to me.She says do whatever possible you can and if i got married to you then i'll be able to continue this relationship with you.

Answer 1

you know what ,this seems to me an Indian society or a pakistani society orf any south asian society ..i might be wrong ,, but women everywhere are insecure....since they are born they are treated this way ..that they have to sacrifice all the time ,the girl you love ,i believe also loves you but at the same time she is thinking of her family and her father ...you will not find loyalty as much as that in men , than in a women..maybe its in their genes .
Try your best , why dont you ask you family members to go , and ask for her hand , its difficult , but society is male dominated , they have made women insecure ...
As for the reason why women are like that ? society have made them like that , in whichever part of the world you are , no matter on how big post a girl is ..she underestimates herself ...because this is what she is taught that i am never complete...she has fear of being alone , but when she gets alone then she realise that the fear is much horrific than being alone ..
This is getting deep into women psychology ,you just have to realise ,that women are much stronger emotionally than men as they are strong physically ..
Anyway s , no deviation from your question ,keep trying , i dont see problem if you are a westerner , but if its eastern society then you know its not that easy..
I pray that God gets you two together !
Regards,
Sidra