She just found out he's been having an affair off and on for four years and in the past her husband was convicted of letting an 14 year old girl give him oral sex.
2006-07-03 04:42:06 · 9 answers · asked by lifeisgrand99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She's not crazy.... she's insecure, scared to make a go of it alone, what she needs is your support and understanding and maybe a boost of confidence so she can see that she will survive with out a loser like him. He should have his wang tacked down to a stump and kicked over backwards! Once a man fools around like that he will always fool around like the idiot he is. The guy's a nut case, I hope you can help her realize she's better then this and maybe just a small change for her to do something to better her life will make her see she CAN and WILL survive with out the baggage! I know she's probably afraid to try to make it on her own, I've talked to many women that have similar experiences but feel safer putting up with what their spouse does then to simply move on and make a better life for themselves because it isn't as easy as moving out and starting over, theres a lot of mental anguish there and she has to deal with that first. God Bless her soul and protect her from those that use her as a kicking post. Good luck :)
2006-07-03 04:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Tainted_Halo 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
She obviously has some serious issues. She must have extremely low self esteem and probably feels like she will never get anybody else but him.
2006-07-03 04:45:49 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your cousin has low self esteem and once she realizes that she can't take this treatment anymore that's when she will leave him.
2006-07-03 04:46:25 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want my advice i say they shouldnt be together he could realy mess things up.but if your cusin is like most cusins she wont wont you to tell her whut to do in her life, but if you realy fell so bad or whut ever you fell you should tri to talk to her or if she wont listen you might want to wright her a letter she might read it and thow it away but it will give her something to think about....
2006-07-03 04:51:09 · answer #4 · answered by ashleylmhangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right, she's crazy ... in love with him.
remember that saying "love is blind.". well this is proof.
either that or she thinks she is a looser and can't make it on her own (without his support).
2006-07-03 04:46:20 · answer #5 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eww I have no idea why she would stay with a child molester.She needs a shrink .
2006-07-03 04:46:16 · answer #6 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is strange. Love is hard.
2006-07-03 04:44:45 · answer #7 · answered by nurse33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mind your own business...sounds like she is a glultten for punishment...
2006-07-03 04:45:48 · answer #8 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE LOVES HIM OR IS JUST STUPIED AND AFFRAID OF BEING ALONE
2006-07-03 04:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋