My friend died in a car crash, and I am really sad about it and I have no idea what to do any more. What would you do if a close friend died in a car crash.? What can make you happy?
2006-07-03 04:39:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
happy? baby girl, you need to morn. go have a good cry. remember him on this day every year. keep something of him/her close by.
2006-07-03 04:49:21 · answer #1 · answered by harmony 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from what happend to me last year i was in a serious accident and i was in pretty bad condition and the doctors had to opperate immideatly, and i no that i didnt die and i am still alive but i no how you are feeling and i no how my family and friends must have been feeling about me when that happend to me, i hit 3 trees dead on in the rain and i hydroplaned for 360 feet until i finally hit those 3 huge trees and i lived to tell about it and not to mention i had my 3 friends in the car right there with me and 2 of them along with me had to get helicopter transported to u of m and if that didnt scare the blank out of you it sure as hell did for me. the things that made me feel better when i finally came out of icu was seeing my friends and family right their beside me.
maybe you could tell you friends and family what you are going through they can help you out with the situation. another thing that also helped me when i found out that i might not have survived the accident was i pray every single time i get into my car and take a drive and start going down that road that way God can protact me from getting into that horrifying accident ever again and so far he has been there right along side of me.
i hope this has helped you oh and if you are wondering one of those girls that had to go to u of m did pass away and i pray every day that she was a christian and that god would be easy on her.
so if you are a christan then you will see here again really soon, but only if she was a christian too???
thats something you should ask youre self ????
2006-07-03 12:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by lauren g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no easy answer, you are suffering from "grief." Grief will takes it course, it;s natural. and there is no set time limit for it. Pray for you friend, talk to God, just like you would talk to your friend, normal, nothing formal. If I were that friend, I would tell you the best thing you could do to honor me, my passing, was to live life. I wouldn't want to see you sad. So you will feel sad for awhile, that's fine. Think, what if it was you that was in the car crash, and you could come back for a minute, what would you tell your friend that was sad? You would thank them, but tell them to carry on with life. Sorry to hear about your loss. I will pray that God gives you peace and comfort in this difficult, trying time.
God Bless You
2006-07-03 11:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Clipper 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm.. really sorry to hear that.. i know how it feels when someone close to u leaves u.. i know u must be feeling the void.. the memories of ur friend will engulf u..i suggest u to keep urself busy.. more time u will spend alone, more u will feel that emptiness that has come in ur life..i know its tough but try it..
try out new things .. outdoor activities which will engage u and keep ur mind away from the memories of ur friend.. i may sound a bit hard hearted but then i ve also gone through such experience and knows the difficulty that u must be facing..
play wid small kids(if u like), they can be real stress buster.. anyways good luck.. hope u will like my suggestion..
2006-07-03 11:52:12 · answer #4 · answered by vishal p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feel ya! Lost my best friend of 18 yrs. last year in MVA, still dealing w/. Just dont ever forget! Keep memories alive. I've laid every single picture I have of her, us, whatever all over the house. I light a candle for her every night, and crazy it seems I catch myself talking to her. (I know shes listening)
I dont do gravesites too well, but I do go out and keep it cleaned up and take her a flower or new windchime (her fav) once a month.
2006-07-03 11:48:07 · answer #5 · answered by nurse33 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i don't know what to say to u except for hold on to those that u still have with u and think about the good times and your friend at their best. i have no idea about bow hard this could possibly be cuz i've never gone through it but i'm sure over time, it will get better and you'll get better.
2006-07-03 11:47:24 · answer #6 · answered by inFAMOUS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What would your friend want you to do? You have to accept it, appreciatte them for the time they had and keep on going.
It will happen again and again through your life and it never gets easy. Keep thier goodness in your heart and carry on.
2006-07-03 11:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sad but to b happy it will take time
2006-07-03 11:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by on the way 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this situation is........... horrible.......terrible.........painful......... i can't say a word about this.......
2006-07-03 11:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋