2006-07-03 04:23:49 · 30 answers · asked by Reesie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That the way life goes. It happens! Only way you can do is to leave him. Life goes on. Dont bother clinging on to him. It will just make everyone unhappy. Demand monetary compensation from him if you feel angered by his cheating.
2006-07-03 04:27:38 · answer #1 · answered by Hawkboy 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Are you another person from a secret service with the mission to break up a perfectly good marriage of a native and an immigrant.
Or are you supposed to get close to the wife and hear her out whether the husband is a dangerous moslim terrorist that is going to bomb the entire europe.
You do not sound genuine.
2006-07-03 04:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by veronica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy home baby booties, and ask for your key back...
Seriously, be glad that you found out you have a strayer now, not later after marriage, children and mortgages. Generally men who stray do not stop at one and if they don't take precautions when they do then there is not much in the way of respect there for you.
Even if you don't mind having a polygamous relationship there is still the problem of a new little life calling him daddy...
Leave him to it.
2006-07-03 04:38:07 · answer #3 · answered by AJ... Australia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie......he is waiting for you to break up with him because he doesn't have the balls to break up with you.....if he cheated and kept all of this from you...he isn't worth it......things happen.....but he obviously only told you because he knew he couldn't get away with it.....
time to leave him......if you can do it and not look back you will be the better for it......define yourself.....redefine yourself and in the future you won't need to ask this question because 1.you will know the answer....and 2 you will want more for yourself......if you stay with him....it will keep happening.....why should he deserve a beautiful baby and get to keep his girlfriend when what he did was dishonest? Everytime you see that child even if you fall in love with it yourself....you will be reminded of what he did...
2006-07-03 04:33:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb! That happened to me the first time I got engaged right after highschool. I was a fool and tried to hang on, thinking that he would choose me over her and the baby. Well he didnt, and now 20 years later he says he regrets his decision. But I should of been stronger and moved on. Life lessons are a kick in the *** sometimes!
2006-07-03 04:34:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd toss him out on his ear - no man is worth the headache that this situation will bring and, believe me when I tell you this, if a man will cheat once he'll do it again.
For some reason, they think that they learned what they did wrong the first time and they're sure they won't get caught the next time.
OR - they think that if you forgave them once that they can get you to forgive them again.
It's a losing situation.
2006-07-03 04:27:51 · answer #6 · answered by anastasia4470 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not react... he just wanted to get rid of you but didnot has guts to tell you straight, so he tells you things, does not matter wether its the truth or not, the reason he is telling you surprises are to ask you do go away... i he doesn't want you to go away... even he is cheated and got caught by you,, he will try denial... and do or say something nice for/about you, just to be with you.... think dear, think.
2006-07-03 04:29:53 · answer #7 · answered by n9flyboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him let me talk to the girl i want to know if you can name the baby after me since i was just a toy to you.
2006-07-03 04:27:05 · answer #8 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that it you can not trust him you will all ways be thinking is he cheating or is there a nothe kid out there plus you should go a dr. and get ck out
2006-07-03 04:27:24 · answer #9 · answered by ahrtracy13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See ya, wouldn't want to be ya!
He is tied to that baby and the baby's mother for the rest of his life. Unless of course he is one of those who doesn't support his kids...And if that is the case, you don't want him anyway.
2006-07-03 04:26:46 · answer #10 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋