I have been seeing this guy for six months on and off. We would break up because he wanted things to be less serious despite the fact that he would act like a boyfriend. He says he wants to be together when we go back to school in the fall and he will do things on my terms. BUT I think that he has been seeing his ex-gf this summer. When asked about it he denied it, but I saw a text message from her saying "I love you." He does have a history of lying. What should I do? There are qualities about him that I love, but I don't want to be the other woman... I'd appreciate any advice.
2006-07-03 04:02:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't think he is messing around on you this will cause you to worry all the time...
Sure he would say no if he See's someone even if its so this also needs to stop.
Now you tell him LOOK if you care about me be with me because this guy I seen he seems to like me and I'm sick and tired of waiting if he cares at that time what ever is going on in his life will stop.
Then he will focus on you and him don't be scared to lose someone this is were you making a mistake don't ever be a follower be a leader [ be Independent males like that ].
2006-07-10 10:44:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why keep someone. When the relationship keeps going on and off like a light switch. If it can't stay on track once, then it not going to be racing down that same track again. Sounds like he wants things going his way.
Don't waste your mintues, hours, and even days. Over someone who don't won't to wait on you. He keeps putting you off, like some unwanted bill.
If I saw a text like that on his cell. I would stick the cell phone, does not matter what kind it is. Up his butt, and let the ringtones play from his mouth.
He could had told his ex. That you and him had broken up, and that he could be seeing her back your back.
2006-07-03 11:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do ? You should stop letting this guy use and walk all over you. He obviously doesn't care that much if he's willing to put you on the back burner until he is ready. He is playing you and playing his ex. Both of you girls need to smarten up and walk away. Dont let the guy make all the rules for your life.
2006-07-03 11:12:35 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get to serious about this guy. If you saw a txt message saying "I LOVE yOU" don't bother at all your just going to hurt yourself more.
2006-07-03 11:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by MARy JANE D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl even if you were butt ugly there are more guys out there who will treat you right, kick his butt to the proverbial curb and move on with your bad self, if he did it more than once chances are he'll do it again, you'll get over him trust me been there done that.
2006-07-03 11:12:08 · answer #5 · answered by diva anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems from his track record you will always be the other woman. Best for you to cut your losses and move forward.
2006-07-03 11:05:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i may not know you but i think you deserve better and i would say you need to get out while you can unless he wants to put more effort into it than that...
2006-07-03 11:07:51 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower776usa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP THE BOY. HE OBVIOUSLY DOESN'T APPRECIATE YOU IF HE'S LYIN TO YOU AND IF YOU SEEN A TEXT MESS. FROM HER THEN THERES ALL THE EVIDENCE YOU NEED...... DUH, YOU NEED SOMEONE WHO WILL APPRECIATE YOU AND TREAT YOU THE WAYYOU DESERVE. EVEN IF YOU LOVE THINGS ABOUT HIM, HE STILL SHOULDN'T BE PUTTING YOU THROUGH THIS B.S.
2006-07-17 09:11:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you ARE the other woman.(how did you see the text?)
2006-07-03 11:06:31 · answer #9 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the ******...there's other fish in the sea
2006-07-03 11:11:51 · answer #10 · answered by RuneWitchSakura1988 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋