2006-07-03 03:55:25 · 26 answers · asked by jc_mobile 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
For certain, you can do it without actually apologising.
You can explain to her that although you may not always see eye to eye, you love your fiance too much to see her upset...and for that reason you feel you should bury the hatchet....just not in her head!
2006-07-03 03:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by asaidladiescanthearya 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talking down to you. What a B*thch. NO, she should apologize to you for treating you like a 2 year old a*sshole. I would be the same way, you deserve respect only when you give respect and she should know that. Sure, these people say kiss her a*ss to keep the peace so if you do that where the hell is your self respect, no where, and your mother in law will pick up on that and continue to treat you like Sh*t. Stand your ground my friend, she owes you the apology and respect!!!!!!!
2006-07-03 04:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by Andy S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to have a happy marriage you have to say you are sorry. Your marriage will never work if you and your mother in law can't get along. Also, Your sweety will love you for being the bigger person and apologizing even when you were treated badly.
2006-07-03 04:04:43 · answer #3 · answered by littlebec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes out of respect you need to apoligize, but I am sure there must be a good reason why you called her that so maybe the two of you need to get together alone and talk about it. Start off by sayin I wan to apoligize for what I said and then explain to her why you said that. They you need to tell her what you want to accomplish out of the relationship with her.
2006-07-03 04:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is better to take the high road...so go ahead and apologize. You certainly don't want to start off on the wrong foot with your future mother-in-law now do you?
2006-07-03 04:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Anytime one is rude, one owes an apology to the object of that rudeness. That she may have been rude as well is irrelevant. You are responsible for your own behavior. She may choose to do the right thing, or she may not. In either case, YOU do the right thing.
2006-07-03 03:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because name calling is immature regardless of the reason. you could be mature and tell her you don't appreciate her talking down to you and would like her to refrain from doing so in the future. as long as you act childishly you are giving her an excuse to treat you like a child. don't give her the opportunity.
2006-07-03 04:00:22 · answer #7 · answered by jbslass 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should. And never call her a b*tch again. This is going to be your family now. Do you really want to have animosity between you ?
2006-07-03 03:59:06 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't have called her that just because you didn't like what she said to you. i would apologize to her for calling her that but tell her your problem and that she should apologize for talking down to you. communication is the key to any relationship.
2006-07-03 10:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by adeleighernandez26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bet you should!
Like it or not, this woman will be in your life for a long time. If you don't have a good relationship with her, your marriage will be that much harder. You can also ask her to treat you with more respect, of course, but I'm guessing that you'll have to work hard to earn that respect, now that you've insulted her.
And notice that I said, "ASK" her to treat you with more respect. If you tell her she has to, you've just shoved your foot in your mouth that much deeper.
2006-07-03 04:00:10 · answer #10 · answered by Ralfcoder 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋