Okay. I couple of week's ago I found out that my boyfriend was hitting on my two friends. And after I asked him he admitted it. But, how do you know that he's not doing it anymore like he promised? Will you be able to trust him? Or will you just break up with him? I love him so much to even let him go. I'm just scared that he might be using me as a rebound...
2006-07-03 03:51:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you do not love him...
2006-07-03 03:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think your a rebound, but he doesn't sound as intense as you do about this relationship. You may want to either ask for an open relationship, or take some time off from each other. Trust is a very hard thing to have, and just his word after he's already done wrong won't help your state of mind.
2006-07-03 04:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U put u'r self in this situation..... but u said " I'm just scared that he might be using me as a rebound..." Did he break up with his girl then get with u?... Cuz u might just be his rebound..... Him Flirting with other ...... well only time and love for u will make him stop........ If u feel like a rebound then more then likely u r but just no that and have u'r guards up!! If u'r heart it telling u to get out of this relationship then i would listen!!! Good luck
2006-07-03 03:58:27 · answer #3 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is one of the most important components of a relationship--of ANY relationship. If you do not trust your boyfriend your relationship will fall apart. Trust is not something that you can simply give someone, though--kind of like love. It either happens or it doesn't. You can try and work on it, and, if you just don't trust him anymore, it may be time to move on. You will know.
2006-07-03 03:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by frogsnmonkeys 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him...you can do better than him and you know that. You don't truely love the guy...dump his sorry a**. You don't deserve a man like that. There is a true love waiting out there for you...you don't need the man you have now. i would not trust him no matter what. The same thing has happened to me and i dumped him cuz i kno i could do better.
2006-07-03 03:56:58 · answer #5 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't trust him in your heart, then I think your headed for heartbreak if you stay with him.
Flirting is one thing, hitting on them with intent to go further is entire new ball game.
The fact that you asked the question tells me you don't trust him. You deserve better than this guy!!
You'll LOVE alot of guys in your life, but if you can't fully trust that person then you'll never be happy, you'll just be looking over your shoulder all the time.
If you continue dating this guy don't think he's just commited to YOU, because it sounds like he's a player. When he matures, maybe then you can date him again.
Go out with your friends, don't focus on him, YOU DESERVE BETTER!!!!
2006-07-03 04:02:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut instinct. It sounds as though he feels like your relationship is a joke. I don't think is is mature enough for the vaulable relationship you are trying to offer. Cut your losses while you can. Good Luck on your situation.
2006-07-03 03:56:08 · answer #7 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let him ago. Who has time to be concerned about what he might be doing? If you can't trust him then no need to keep holding on.
2006-07-03 03:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by ncc742 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature. Move on. He obviously does not want to be tied down in a serious relationship; and you deserve a whole lot better than him. Good luck.
2006-07-03 04:05:17 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Grudge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would see if he did it again and if he didn't that means he is fully commited to you and you guys can get past this ordeal but if he does it again I'm said to say you probably should break up with him because that shows you that he is trying to get other girls when he should only be flirting with you.
2006-07-03 03:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by derbreezy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never be able to trust him completely again. There will always be that kernel of doubt as to what is he doing when we aren't together. If you can live with that, keep him.
2006-07-03 03:55:23 · answer #11 · answered by karen wonderful 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋