is this normal? does he possibly have a sex issue? i never get any sleep. he wakes me up every 20 minutes.
2006-07-03 03:38:14 · 9 answers · asked by higa1980ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
And this would be a bad thing??? Doesn't sound like he's got any problem, health wise. But you may not be a good match in the libido department if this bothers you.
2006-07-03 03:40:22 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal, no
Better than normal, yes.
Sex issue: possibly Sex addiction is real
However, here's my advice. He's young (most likely) and/or just impatient. You need to slow things down with him. Take him right to the edge of ejaculation and then back off. Make him wait a full hour to two before you let him ***. What may be happening is this:
Some men have an overactive reproductive system.
Making more sperm than their body can store and more
testosterone then they can handle. He keeps trying to satisfy
his need. Within 20 minutes of ejaculation, he's ready to go again.
What to do: by holding him off, he'll orgasm harder and ejaculate more. This will relieve the pressure and allow him to sleep and you as well. If you get him good and tired he'll collapse and hopefully allow you to slumber peacefully.
You should be happy too. This guy is so turned on by you. I mean really! I know it's a pain, but he is really into you. Reminds me of a girl I dated in college. WOW.
Aside from that. If you're tired and need rest. Tell him to masturbate. It's okay, he does it when you're not there anyway.
Just tell him before bed that you're tired and need to sleep. If he gets horny please just "jack off". Say it sweet though or he could get offended. Make him know that it's okay to do it. I've been married three years and my wife just recently made me feel like it was okay. So, handle this gentlly. Say something like, "honey, I want you to jack off for me. I'm tired and need sleep, but I know you need me. So, maybe you can look at me while I sleep and *** for me." This or getting up with him and talking to him while he masturbates. Get him used to it. What will eventually happen, is he'll learn that you're not going anywhere and he can get whooppee whenever. He'll begin to sleep through the night and all will be well.
Expect results in about 10 years.
Cheers!!
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2006-07-03 10:57:21 · answer #2 · answered by Cherry Stems 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds pretty normal but if he's disturbing you while you sleep, that's not good. Talk to him and tell him your happy to join in but to respect your sleep time.
2006-07-03 10:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my hubby and I went for 10 one time when we were younger! I was great at the time but later I went to work so tired I could hardly hold my head up! He did, too!
2006-07-03 10:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
as this a bad thing.
wow - consider yourself a lucky woman. and tell him to slow down on the viagra.
2006-07-03 10:51:01 · answer #5 · answered by river_runs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds liks a little help from the coke man.
2006-07-03 10:43:10 · answer #6 · answered by mike67333 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seperate rooms sounds good to me
2006-07-03 10:43:11 · answer #7 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to quit jacking off....
2006-07-03 10:52:23 · answer #8 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and you're complaining because........
2006-07-03 10:52:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋