I know this girl from my mom's work and she really likes me. Her friends always tell me she likes me. Im single and she knows that me and my girl broke up like a month ago, but the thing is I dont have a feeling for her. So how can I tell her no because im not just to doing this to a girl. Why because I been with my girl almost 2 years and I love her. So how can tell her I dont have feelings for her.
2006-07-03 03:34:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Don't tell her you don't have feelings for her. There is absolutely no need to hurt her in this way.
You could explain that you are still in love and hoping to reconcile with your girlfriend. Let her know that even if you can't work things out with your girlfriend it is going to take you a long time to recover and you will not be dating for a while because it would not be fair to anyone.
Although you should not tell her, it is probably not a good idea to date someone whom your mom works with. Things could get uncomfortable for your mom if you dated and then broke up with a co-worker of hers.
2006-07-03 03:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not listen to those who advise you "just tell her how you feel"; it is neither necessary nor kind to tell an admirer that you find them lacking. Simply continue to be polite and courteous, but without any hint that you return her admiration. If she asks you out, you thank her but "have other plans." If she calls you, tell her you are in a hurry and ask the reason for her call; then cut the call short. Unless she is a total moron, she will get the idea.
2006-07-03 10:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try your best to avoid her. She'll take notice and might read your signal. Its nice to advise that you tell her honestly and frankly about your feelings. But, what if something happens and one day, you woke up in love with her, i dont think you can take back what you have said. Bottomline, you'll never be sure of whats in store tomorrow. So just ignore her...thats it. :-D
2006-07-03 10:41:24 · answer #3 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd just tell her "I'm not interested in dating anyone right now. I just recently got out of a long relationship and need some time for myself." Then she knows it's about your feelings, and she SHOULD be understanding. Kudos to you for being upfront about what you're feeling.
2006-07-03 10:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When did we stop telling the truth in relationships? You can tactfully say "no" without lying.
Tell her your still recovering from your breakup, and while you are flattered she thinks of you in that way, you can't return her feelings, and she deserves someone that can give her their full attention.
2006-07-03 10:41:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could tell her that your girl and you broke up not too long ago and you're not nterested in seeing other people at the moment.
2006-07-03 10:37:02 · answer #6 · answered by .: The Girl Next Door:. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend.i had the same problem as you,with a boy!!and what have i done??i told him that i am not ready for a new relationship and if he likes me then he will understand me.......i hope that i help you!!send me when you do it....
2006-07-03 10:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by dancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no better way then just plain old honesty... from your mouth that is.. not hear say
2006-07-03 10:36:44 · answer #8 · answered by panda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't need to do anything, if she doesn't approach you first
2006-07-03 10:40:15 · answer #9 · answered by giddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋