should you wait and go to college, or get married right out of high school?
2006-07-03 03:29:19 · 18 answers · asked by BABY RUTH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hello!
as long as you are financially stable, psychological and physiological stable. entering to a married life is complicated it is not only you your dealing of, you will be dealing your own family that is your husband and for your future children. its a different stage of life that you have to consider your maturity stage. there is no ideal age to start a family as long as your ready for it. God bless! =)
2006-07-03 03:38:18 · answer #1 · answered by simply_mica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience:
I got married at 19 or 20 to my high school sweetheart. Big mistake. Mainly because he was a cheating, lying scumbag.
Got married again at 26. Another mistake. Even though he was 10 years older, he hadn't decided what he wanted to be when he grows up.
Got married again at 28. This one is the match made in Heaven for many reasons. For one, I've learned from my mistakes. 2. I was old enough to know what real love was about and what marriage was about. 3. College was complete.
I would wait at least until out of college.
2006-07-03 03:44:14 · answer #2 · answered by PATTY H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married while i was 24 and my parents arranged my marriage. Now its about 4 years siince i was married and now i am 28 and have 2 kids. Working for a company and its very hard experience. Therefore, if you have plently of dad's money and no other worries in life, if you have no goal in life so its good to marry in the age between 24-30. Otherwise if you are self made, have no dad's money or heritage, just please ignore marrying till 30. After u come to mature age then think about marrying and starting a family.
2006-07-03 03:44:11 · answer #3 · answered by Zaffarullah R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think there is a best AGE to get married. It is all about maturity and what you want for your life. I got married at 24 and started my family soon after. I think that once you have achieved some of the successes you want out of life, you will naturally want to share them with someone. That could 22 or 38. Who knows? Just have fun and enjoy life for now.
2006-07-03 03:40:04 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at the age of 23 and had a child at 26. I would not trade my child for anything, but I wished I had waited. I think early 30's would be a better age to make your long life commitment.
2006-07-13 16:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by aloneathome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you've acquired your education, and sown all your wild oats. In other words, when there's nothing much left to do but settle down with one you love and who loves you in return. Thus it's not a matter of age. But rather maturity, experience, and stability in one's life. With a partner of like history. Hopefully that would curb the divorce rate that seems rampant these days.
That's also pretty much a fairy tale attitude in this day of instant gratification.
2006-07-03 03:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready there is no age I got married at 20yrs of age and then had my first child at 21yrs old. I was married with children before my older sister her child is younger than mine, so there is no real age to start you family it when you are ready
2006-07-03 03:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by jentn2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
28-32
2006-07-03 03:44:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and go to college so that you can have a nice job, be independent and have your life more on track.
2006-07-03 03:34:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are finacially stable and capable of taking care of yourself if something were to happen.You should want to get married if you are ready to be with one person forever;good times and bad. You should know who you are and what you want in life before you settle down
2006-07-03 04:07:18 · answer #10 · answered by lily_shaine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋