I posted this question earlier, but I pretty much messed it up. Anyways, here it is again, I would really really appreciate your help.
I've known this girl for about 3 years, we're pretty good friends. About a year ago, she asked me out. I didn't really answer her and we left it at that. However, very recently I asked her if she would like to catch a movie sometime. She said "Maybe,". When I asked her if she was avilable the Saturday or Monday, she answered no. I asked her when she would be available and she said "Not for the next lil while." I really like this girl and I wan't to go out with her. It is possible she was telling the truth due to the fact that she has camp on tuesday, but I asked her out on Friday.
2006-07-03 03:13:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I shouldn't have said she asked me out. She was flirting with me by suggesting I ask her out. I just never did.
2006-07-03 03:31:13 · update #1
maybe she still has feelings for u, more than friendship...
if u still feel that way...the best way is to talk it out with her...
this might affect ur friendship a little but it will also clear ur confusions. Find out if she is just saying shes busy because she wants to ignore the fact u havent responded to her question. alright
t c
byee =)
2006-07-03 03:18:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is possible she's telling the truth. If she said maybe and not out right no, that's a good sign or she may just want to let you down gently. Try asking her again, after she gets back from camp, and if she is evasive or says no again without a concrete reason, back off and leave it alone.
2006-07-03 12:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might start by explaining to her why you didn't respond to her when she asked you out in the first place. Then that might clear things up so you two can possibly date. Women need definition. By your not responding to her asking you out it looked like a form of rejection. Sometimes you men just don't get how a woman looks at things like that!
2006-07-03 10:24:16 · answer #3 · answered by December Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go ahead and ask again. dont give up. if she rejects...maybe can ask her whether there is any problem between both of you? did you upsad her before.. should say some kind of sentences like this... You never ask and you will never know. it is not good playing guessing games cos' guys will never understand girls.. If you know the final answer from her, you will either work out with her or just dont waste time on her and move on for better girls out there..
2006-07-03 10:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by Janep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is probably playing a game. Don't be a part of it.
Tell her you like her and want to go out with her and want to know for sure when she is available. If she is still avasive, forget her.
What do you want with somebody evasive and dishonest. Would not make a very good wife or Mother to your children.
2006-07-03 10:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably hurt her feelings when you wouldn't answer one way or the other the first time... why should she rush to accept your invitations now?
If you are really interested be persistent but not pushy... pick or get her a flower for no reason but "it reminded me of you", you know, little stuff that lets her know she finally got your attention and you are willing to wait until she ... forgives you for being rude maybe.
2006-07-03 10:21:56 · answer #6 · answered by toastposties 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's just playing hard to get. she asked you out before and you guys didnt really do anythign about it. i feel that now she is just trying to get bak at you. talk to her tell her that you really like her and wouldnt want to loose her.. and that you feel that you are ready to take this friendship to the next level. Maybe then she will be assured that you are honestly asking her out and you mean it. best of luck
2006-07-04 15:26:19 · answer #7 · answered by samantha * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Likely you are 55 now,she looks younger than,..not as she admired you, in a year ago, feeling changes with time, .maybe she meant in next re carnations or, not interested anymore,not in position of, As a year ago she have intentions to go along with you , but you persists,likely she found someone new in time,not keen to along anymore,looks for someone new,accept ables...painful / sadness of life......what else can I says..Take care
2006-07-03 10:24:13 · answer #8 · answered by shaikhmohdmusa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HA HA HA......Now that she has matured and grown into a nice womanly figure and is looking hot you changed your mind and want some of that do you? Serves you right. Learn from this. HA HA HA
2006-07-03 10:18:43 · answer #9 · answered by Fergy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She refused a lot of times already, obviously she doesn't want to..
Asking her over and over will just piss her off..
2006-07-03 10:26:30 · answer #10 · answered by xed_dx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋