I dont want the baby anymore and im four months so where and how can i make it go away without anybody finding out. im scared but have to do it as the father threatens me each day to get rid of it. is there a remedy i can take or a tablet to bring on a miscarrige?
2006-07-03 02:39:02 · 23 answers · asked by butterfly 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
that is a sad situation, You might regret anything you do. I suggest you talk to a conselor. Good luck and peace be with you
2006-07-03 02:43:24 · answer #1 · answered by Charlotte 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I feel very sorry for you. I know that you must be going through a lot and you don't know where to turn. Abortion may not be the answer, but it is your choice. You are this baby's mother. I personally would not have one, but it's not my body or my baby. If you want to keep this child, leave this guy now. He is not healthy for you. Also, there are test to tell you if you have done any damage to this baby. It is not good that you have taken drugs, but it also doesn't mean that you have caused physical damage. You should not take anymore drugs! I was young when I had my daughter and there were times I was and felt really lost and alone, but she is 10 yrs. old now I have been a good mother. I see me in her eyes. I love being a mother and if you give it a chance you might as well. Please make your choice wisely and not because some guy is telling you what to do. That's the best part about your body and choice, its yours!
2006-07-03 03:22:27 · answer #2 · answered by Sara A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are 4 months so they baby is almost half grown. there is no remidie. Most of hte time people use things and they baby becomes retarded instead of losing the baby. I have 4 friends like you that tried drijnking etc. Now they all have handicap kids. I don;t believe in abortion but if you really wanted to not have the baby you should;ve had one in the first 6-8 weeks. Now it will be painful and a horible experince for the baby and for you. If you want to do the right thing give it up for aboption....good luck
2006-07-03 02:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would first worry about the supposed sperm donor(not the father to be a father takes a lot more than he is apparently willing to give.) If he is threatening you then you probably shouldn't be with him. Secondly I'm sorry you feel that way about the living baby inside you. My suggestion is giving the baby up for adoption. There are plenty of people out there that can't have children and that deserve the chance to feel what it is like to be a parent.
2006-07-03 03:25:39 · answer #4 · answered by commander_fernandez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell did you wait so damn long to go get an abortion? First off, you put the baby through an amphetamine addiction for three months. What if you can't get an abortion at this stage of the pregnancy? Did you even think about what would happen if this child had to be born with defects from the drugs? Sick.
2006-07-03 02:48:17 · answer #5 · answered by guineasomelove 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To terminate the pregnancy, you would need to go to a clinic that provides this service or can refer you to one that does. Look up Planned Parenthood on the web to find the one nearest you.
However, trying to do this yourself is simply ridiculous. You have made the mistake of drug use during a pregnancy, don't harm your body further by doing something else irrational.
If you want to keep the child, you should seek out a women's shelter, as they can help you and keep you safe from the "boyfriend" that is threatening you.
Seems as if you do lead a life that is on a very self-destructive path, and you should also seek counseling for this.
2006-07-03 02:45:52 · answer #6 · answered by Shani S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What has happened has happened, don't let these insults get to you. The thing to remember is that life is going to go on regardless of what decision you make. If you are religious, most religion's gods are forgiving... Back to the situation... In Europe, I've heard of an abortion pill but of course it hasn't been approved for use in the USA by the FDA. You'll have to research it on the net. Otherwise just seek an abortion in your area. Travel further if you're worried about privacy...
2006-07-03 05:32:16 · answer #7 · answered by ronbacardi96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't take care of yourself you could end up with a severely Handicapped child, maybe severely Retarded. You need to think about this and get away from your boyfriend who is giving you bad advice. There are plenty of ppl willing to adopt your UNwanted child and love and nurture the child. Talk to your Doctor or a nurse and get some help. Look for something like "Life house ministries" or "UN-wed mothers" call your department of human services and ask for info about places that help you find a home for your un-born child.
2006-07-03 02:49:35 · answer #8 · answered by winterlvr66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you have the baby and give to people who can't have children or go to an abortion clinic. I'm sorry to hear that you don't want your baby. If your 4 months the baby should be starting to move around. And it might be too late for an abortion. You really should talk to some one. How old are you? If you need someone to talk to you can email, if you want. It's always nice to have someone to talk to.
2006-07-03 02:45:32 · answer #9 · answered by jess_brenda_04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in the US.. you need to go to your local health department. They will help you out with this and let you know what your options are. Most health departments are free or very discounted depending on what your income and your age is. If you are under 16 years of age, there could be problems here. But if you are over that, you can go to the Health departments in most states and be seen.
2006-07-03 02:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by sheristeele 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are pills that can bring on an abortion, but they only come from a physician... And while an abortion in the first trimester is legal, you are at four months (ths second trimester).
GO TO A DOCTOR! No one else can help you.
2006-07-03 02:46:07 · answer #11 · answered by hipcat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋