i lied too much on my friends.....but now i dont lie.....any thing i say that is true they just say ''no,no,that didnt happen,u are lying'' but i am not.i want them to believe me.....any advice please?
2006-07-03 02:31:39 · 15 answers · asked by Vango 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
First off--big hug from me to you.
You can try being a bit more sincere in your words and actions--hopefully they will recognize that you are trying to change and accept you.
2006-07-03 02:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by Maribel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should ask yourself why it's so important to you to lie on your friends. I had a friend that lied alot in high school but one day she was telling me the truth about a boyfriend and because she lied so much I didn't believe her. But then I saw the boyfriend with this girl and the truth came to light. But if she hadn't been lying about other things I would have believed her in the beginning. Stop telling so many lies.
2006-07-03 02:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Brea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had put yourself in a rock and a hard place. You had lie to them so long, that there is no support for you any more. If you want to keep the friends, that you had hurt. You need to cut the lies.
Then you have to work hard, put some elbow grease behind it. Do some nice things for them. Keep telling them, that you are sorry for what you done. Show them, you will walk miles to catch up on the friendship.
2006-07-03 02:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by kygl28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll take time...like the old story of "the boy who cried wolf", you've apparently lied enough that people are used to questioning everything you say...I'm surprised they are still your friends, because I wouldn't stay friends long with a liar.
You're going to have to prove yourself to them...by not lying and letting them see over time that what you have been saying is true. The first time you slip up though, they're likely to never believe you again.
2006-07-03 02:36:39 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-30 04:59:45 · answer #5 · answered by einhorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is just going to take them some time to see that you are now being truthful. One slip will wipe out all the progress you make so remain honest and eventually you will be trusted again. You just need to be patient. It does take a long time to overcome a bad reputation like that.
2006-07-03 02:36:51 · answer #6 · answered by Norm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will definitely have to prove yourself. If you continue to go "lie free" over and over again, your friends will soon see that you have changed. Unfortunately, since you are known as a liar to your friends, one lie will probably set you back - so don't do it at all. You don't have to lie for people to like you. Just be yourself.
2006-07-03 02:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically its the boy who cryed wolf here.. your friends are supposed to be close to u and look after each other and they trusted you and you lied to them so even though u may not be lying now they wont trust you because of all the lies you've told in the past...
2006-07-03 02:36:31 · answer #8 · answered by jen2fla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt lay on your friends whether they are big or small, its uncomfortable to have that extra weight on your body....
You're going to have to suck it up. This is the consequence of having been a liar. Until they can see that you are indeed telling the truth they have no reason, and you have no right to expect them to believe you. You have to prove yourself a trustworthy person.
2006-07-03 02:35:35 · answer #9 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have thought about that before. It will be a long time before anyone can trust you again. Keep trying, and maybe some day someone will trust you again.
2006-07-03 02:37:16 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋