she never picks up after herself and her house is trashed. she has a 5 month old baby and i am worried about the baby picking something up off the floor and choking. what should i do? i have went and cleaned it up before but i cant physically do that anymore. she spent 2 months here and never lifted a finger. now she has her own place, but i am worried.
2006-07-03 02:29:46 · 8 answers · asked by lodeemae 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Spank her..!!!.just playing, but seriously y'all need 2 have a talk, let her know that her child is at risk and try to get somebody else to help u to convince her to take care of her self cuz that's a nasty habit.
2006-07-03 02:35:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think the answer is obvious. Perhaps it's so obvious that you simply overlooked it.
Think about this idea: when you go to the doctor you describe your symptoms and the doctor treats the cause.
so stop trying to treat the symptom...the messiness.
hug your daughter and remind her you love her.
time will do the rest.
2006-07-03 02:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's a slob! She's also a grown woman and most likely won't change. I've know a few slobs and thats just the way there are.
2006-07-03 02:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by DialM4Speed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
growing to be up my mom did 2 issues. a million) If the television is the problem... unplug it. She cant be a television head if there isnt television to observe now can she. the different aspect she did became if i left my stuff round, I were given a reminder. If the reminder wasnt dealt with, she picked it up, placed it contained in the rubbish, and threw it down the chute (we lived in an apt.). I even ought to ask, as a mom of three youngsters, why in the international are you paying her to water some plant two times a week even as it could be each day. My youngsters dont receives a fee to preserve their stuff (sparkling room etc). Its a million of two alternatives. a million) preserve it. 2) you pay to have it fixed/replaced etc. and in case you do pay her for chores, dont pay for a nil.5 interest. in case you worked as a hair stylist, you wouldnt get finished pay in case you in straight forward words reduce 0.5 her head... so why is she? purely my 2 cents. And if she moved in with you because of combating including her mom, odds are her mom were given drained of it too, so set floor guidelines. Set punishments in the experience that they arent observed by. IE in the experience that your floor isnt sparkling on Tuesday after I vacuum it, i am going to in my opinion sparkling the floor, and it is going to likely be thrown out. similar with laundry "in the experience that your laundry isnt downstairs by 9am after I do laundry, i am going to snatch it for you, and it may properly be aired out at the front backyard until eventually you placed it away. happened to me once, and my laundry became continually downstairs then after. gentle hearted such issues as airing out laundry paintings extra efficient than "your grounded" ... purely my notwithstanding
2016-11-30 04:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by einhorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey it will be OK and you can go over there and check on her. if she comes back home then tell her to pick up her mess and tell her if she don't then you have to leave my house i do not want that baby to choke on nothing
BRITTANY
2006-07-03 02:40:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Child Protective Services. That should wake her up!!
2006-07-03 02:38:20 · answer #6 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can get custody of the baby n as for ur daughter she was spoild when she was younger n she isnt used to doin stuff for herself!!!
2006-07-03 02:38:28 · answer #7 · answered by LaLo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD LUCK WITH THAT ONE. I HOPE SHE IS TAKING CARE OF THAT BABY! THAT WOULD CONCERN ME MORE.
2006-07-03 02:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by ASTORROSE 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋