A family friends son & I are in love(decade old family friends from grandparents time)we spoke over phone 4yrs back but in touch since 2yrs in love with eachother.We have yet to meet as hes abroad.Im in Asia.Hes in USA.I got to move to new country for new job.When i told him he wasnt happy,excited,he was very sad.Why?He kept bringing up past(bad stuff),saying i would meet some other guy in new place,he thinks im holding him ransom to marriage since asked to meet up.What to do?Explain ur answers.
2006-07-03 01:53:59 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is insecure with youf relationship. Confirm that you love him and you will wait for him if it is ment to be he will wait for you. You are the one that has to be real with yourself. Can you wait and will you tell him if you do meet someone new?
2006-07-03 02:00:00 · answer #1 · answered by Badboyattitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's nice that your family friends, but if he isn't willing to meet face to face there's something going on there. Sorry to say when guys don't want to meet up but claim things against you...usually means he's doing that himself. And he's just trying to turn it on you which isn't fair. I'd start asking him questions and don't get to seriously involved with him, even if it's over the phone.
2006-07-03 02:01:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is keeping you from meeting him now??? Is it worth losing him??? I say, both of you make and extraordinary effort to finally meet. He may not be worth waiting for. If Money is holding you back, borrow it. How can you progress if you can't even see each other? Now....GO TO HIM!!! If he says "no"....you will know he is trying to get out of the marriage.
2006-07-03 02:04:41 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act to make ur future happy ....dear there are lot of people good enough to hang around .........think if he brings the matter ( of conflict or digging graves of old stories ) once u r married ( life will be more den hell .......wake up from this difficult love story ( start afresh and life deserves to be more simpler happier and in ur control)...........best of luck
2006-07-03 02:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by avi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first priority is to answer my contact questions, so I often read them. I also try to catch up with their answers while answering the questions.
2016-03-27 02:16:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk with him about it, explain erverything to him and let him know how you feel.
2006-07-03 02:01:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋