Please no jokes if you want to asnwer frankly do if not do not answer at all
2006-07-03 01:12:06 · 55 answers · asked by manofgentleness 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
By the way I am the guy and I do not know what to do so do not talk to be as I am the mom
2006-07-03 01:30:12 · update #1
um...no
2006-07-03 01:15:20 · answer #1 · answered by babydoll796444 1 · 1⤊ 4⤋
It's pretty unusual. If your mother is attracted to you at all, she is probably wallowing in shame and disgust at herself. If she is attracted to you though, it's probably because of some pretty deep underlying issues. She may need some help. I don't think I could stand to bring up the issue with my parents. It might just make the situation more uncomfortable. I would only say something if she does anything more than gaze.
How long was she gazing for? She might have been thinking about how much you've grown since she used to change your diapers. Or if they were new boxers, if they were fitting well. She could have been worried they were too tight, since I've heard of briefs causing a bit of impotence. Or maybe that is just a common myth. Every mom wants to be sure she has grand kids.
Finally you could have just been imagining it. She was looking in that general direction and perhaps because of whatever you were thinking that day you came to the idea that she was looking at your penis. She might have been looking at the tweety birds on your boxers. Thinking about how little you used to be. And how soon you'll be off to college.
2006-07-03 10:53:35 · answer #2 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is really disgusting and revolting to think that any mom would do such a weird thing to their own son. If this is the scene then what is the difference between human beings and animals. Why don't you do your changing in the bathroom and put on some jocks under your shorts.
2006-07-15 05:58:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number 1: Don't hang around your Mom-- or anybody besides a spouse-- with only your boxers on... you are too old to be running around in your underwear.
Number 2: It's possible you are imagining more than is really happening.
Number 3: Maybe she is wondering how to tell you to go put on some clothes.
Number 4: She might be a bit sick.... re-read Number 1.
2006-07-15 08:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by mia2kl2002 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No it is not normal, but the 18 year old should not be walking around in boxers ether. Show some Modesty
2006-07-15 12:50:18 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is trying to hint to you that you shouldn't walk around the house in your boxers? Wear a robe or some sweatpants.
not normal- Tell her to stop.
2006-07-16 20:03:01 · answer #6 · answered by User 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats a really un-normal thing for a mom. The only question I have for you is.. has she ever touched you? I'd stop walking around in my boxers.
2006-07-15 07:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by lucki_charmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweets, I don't think that is too normal to be honest. If she does it again maybe ask her "Mom, Is something wrong?" If it's bothering you. I really have no idea what to say but just kind of talk to her about it but not straight forward if your not comfortable with talking about that.
Bleeeh, Sorry hun. I hope she stops soon enough for you.
<3
2006-07-03 04:59:02 · answer #8 · answered by hollajovana 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nobody should object to his mother looking at ANY part of his body because for heaven's sake, SHE MADE IT! My mother barges right in on me while I'm bathing and I'm 23, but do I have any right to complain? Absolutely not! I don't work, I don't pay the bills, and I'm pretty lazy about chores. So what can a free-loading young person in his mother's house possibly have to say about his mother doing the very thing he probably wants some strange female to do -- look at the thing that defines him as a man!
2006-07-03 03:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
i guess it depends. if your eye wonders there, fine. if you're thinking as a mom that you haven't seen it since he was young and wonder if it's like his dad's (in a non-sexual way) then i guess that's a little unusual but not wrong. if gazing at it implies any kind of sexual thoughts (which is what it sounds like) then you're seriously crossing into the boundary of incest (at least mentally). whether that's wrong or not no one can tell you. The majority of the world, myself included, think incest is wrong and it shouldn't be done. but really, as much as i disagree with it, if you're two consenting adults (assuming he's consenting) then i guess it's between you and your son (assuming you're the mom here).
2006-07-03 01:19:34 · answer #10 · answered by alia_vahed 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i wouldnt suppose so... but if u dont want her to i would definatly suggest not wearing just boxers around the house... perhapes if u wore a pair of jog shorts.or just ask her why she gazes... i hate saying this but if i were u in this situation i would ask her... perhaps shell stop gazing
2006-07-13 12:59:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋