2006-07-03 01:07:41 · 40 answers · asked by Nani S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
honey, not all of us cheat...some men get bored and think that the grass is always greener, etc. ..
I'm assuming that you were cheated on...do you want to ask more questions?
2006-07-03 01:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by jonny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married men don't always cheat. Sometimes they do, as do some married women. Cheating by either spouse is an indication that there is something wrong in the marriage. It may be that one partner isn't fulfilling either the sexual or emotional needs of the other. I've seen it many times where the couple get married and the effort to please eachother disappears. There is a myth out there that things have to settle down and the intensity of the relationship has to reduced after a certain time together but I don't believe that for a second. If you love your partner, really love them, then you should want to please them as much after 40 years as you did on your wedding day. I think that both sexes are guilty of letting that intensity go and thus causing their partners to find what they need elsewhere! This is my honest opinion.
2006-07-03 01:14:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Always" is inappropriate and just wrong in this question. It stands to reason that there are some married men who do not cheat.
I believe the an answer to "why" men cheat is simply "opportunity." There is absolutely no way to minimize opportunity. There are several time opportunities throughout the course of a day, as well as, an endless supply of prospective and willing participants. Infidelity is a personal decision that men and women, probably without much thought to the repercussions and/or probable complications. It is absolutely NOT a reflection of their spouses performance of their obligations in any aspect. The issue is only with the cheater.
2006-07-03 01:20:27 · answer #3 · answered by SAN P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer to your question is Not all men cheat and not all women cheat. There are alot on each side that do. If you can't trust the one you married then you shouldn't be in that situation. Get out of it. I have been going with a girl for 4 years and she was the one that cheated many times. I was always faithful. So don't bash all of the men out there. Some of us are old fashion and love the one we are with.
2006-07-03 01:17:37 · answer #4 · answered by Badboyattitude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK well it is true men do cheat but so do women. Usually it is a break down in a relationship Refusal to talk TRUTHFULLY and express feelings openly. People tend to drift apart because of lack of communication. Sex is also a reason, but not just the sex it is the physical intimacy an example is when you first kiss someone and it cruels your toes. But after you become use to some one a kiss does not have that connection.
2006-07-03 01:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by bnotagain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men cheat because women don't care about their man's sexual needs and wants, and are either selfish or boring in bed and out of bed. There is alot more to an unfaithful spouse than just the sex. Most women cause their man to cheat on them, mostly because they are not concerned with what he wants. Women make no effort to compromise on sexual issues. A man is expected to do what ever it takes to satisfy the woman but women don't have to do anything THEY don't want to do regardless of the man. Thats not just when it comes to sex either. Remember your not his Mother so don't act like it. Just because you may be a mother doesn't mean you don't still have to be a wife.
2006-07-03 03:44:49 · answer #6 · answered by logisticswizard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men for sure! It happens to wives who dont want to take what husband gives. The rule is Give & Take (Yes - Husbands give and Wives to receives - that is the rule of family life). People speak many thing outside but this is the "unwritten rule".
2006-07-03 01:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by OPTIMIST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are losers! Seriously though, there are studies being done to determine if the human species is supposed to be monogamous. It has to do with the size of the male's testicles (seriously). Gorillas have very small testicles and they mate for life. Chimpanzees have very large testicles and they spread their seed far and wide. Humans fall somewhere in between, so biologically it makes sense that men will be pervs and cheat. It just isn't acceptable in our society! I guess if you can find a man that has control over his animal behavior you will be one step ahead.
2006-07-03 01:11:34 · answer #8 · answered by all_my_armour_falling_down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all men cheat on there wives
2006-07-03 01:10:03 · answer #9 · answered by catfan99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all married men cheat on their wives and I think just as many woman cheat on their husbands and woman are just as much pigs as men
2006-07-03 01:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by todd2964 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got it wrong dear...... you must include the women too to your question. All don't cheat so you need to be more specific with your question.
If i say that married women cheat by going out with unmarried men, then what option does it leave the men with.
2006-07-03 01:14:05 · answer #11 · answered by rocket-lankan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋