What do men really want in a woman?

Question

i would like to hear from the heart not the dart.

Answer 1

I, for one, would like them to not pass judgment on men until after they have met them.
If a friendship or more is grown, then I would like as much trust, and respect as they get from him.

Answer 2

Well, the dart is a big one. But besides that, I look for a girl who has a great personality and a positive outlook on life. Someone who can laugh at my jokes. I like women who enjoy the things that I do; sports, kiyaking, rollarblading, etc. A passionate woman who cares more about others then herself. Too many girls these days are all about themselves, too prissy and high maintainance. Nothing wrong with a high maintainance girl, but I value the power of the american dollar, looking good is one thing, but I won't by you Prada every day. I want a woman who will listen to me when I am happy or sad, and be there for me.

Answer 3

I read somewhere that the first thing that attracts a man to a woman is the shape of her hips, and breasts. This is not a conscious thought. It is just that the human race is programmed to survive, and survival means multiplying, so men automatically scan for women with slightly rounded hips which show the men that the woman in question can carry / bear a child. The breasts show she can give suck to his child.

On other levels, each person looks for different things, but there are certain general things men like to have in a woman.

1. Support. Men experience a lot of stress and are very happy when their wives give them support, rather than increase the stress by nagging or blaming. Your man just has to be right. If he is not, you have to first make him feel good. Remember, men are very very strong everywhere, except in their ego.

2. Love (need to explain? Think not!)

3. Also good looks of course

4. Presentability (The woman should take care of herself and not look like something the cat brought in last night or have a body odour)

5. Good housekeeping skills

6. Friendliness and and enjoy doing what he does.

Answer 4

assuredly you know there is no single
answer to this question
only generalizations or specifications of an
individual
mostly we want the same things you ladies
do love emotional security loyalty friendship
we are just wired a bit different but do come
to basically the same needs (some more than others)
i also enjoy a good game of qouitus once in a while
and you cant just take that out of the equation
for it is apparently much stronger in males

Answer 5

Someone they can relate to, who likes the same things as they do, who makes them feel better then other men (because men are quite competitive), but still leaves them a feeling of freedom.

Answer 6

i want somebody to hold my hand
somebody to love me and understand
i want a woman (woman)
i want a lover (a lover)
i want a friend (a woman, a lover, a friend)

mmm, i want somebody to share my love
yes, loving is something i've got plenty of
i want a woman (woman)
i want a lover (a lover)
i want a friend (a woman, a lover, a friend) ah-ahh

i don't want a fancy gal
with powder and paint
and i don't want a woman
who thinks she's a saint
i'm looking for someone
who's not make-believe
and doesn't mind giving so that she may receive

there must be somebody somewhere around
that's looking for someone to give pound for pound
i want me a woman (woman)
mmm, i want a lover (a lover)
i want a friend (a woman, a lover, a friend)

yeah i want her right now
i want my little girl anyway, i want her anyhow

Answer 7

someone that makes them happy when they're not.someone that can always make them smile even when they dont want to. someone they can trust & that will trust them. someone who believes in them with no questions or doubts that they can do the same for.but from my experience that must be a myth.

Answer 8

I would hope to think mother potential, someone they can stand to be around and isn't nagging.

Answer 9

Someone who is independant, no baggage, happy and carefree and respects individuality.

Answer 10

Companionship.

My wife is my best friend. Great brains. Brains are HOT.