People have always had decisions to make, how do you know if the decisions for divorce are the right ones. How long did it take to relize this was what you had to do and why did you do it?!
2006-07-03 00:51:44 · 10 answers · asked by kgirlmamma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You'll never know. I got divorced a few years ago. I was convinced it was the right thing to do for the right reasons. Right now if I could turn the clock back I would. Work at your marriage until there's nothing else you can do then there's no regrets later.
2006-07-03 00:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are thinking of divorcing, it means that something is very wrong in your relationship. I thought about divorce after 2 years of my 12 year marriage. I stayed for the sake of my children, but now wish we would have divorced earlier. Nothing changed, only got worse the longer we were together. You know the decision is right if you use your head and not your heart. Easier said than done. Goodlluck!
2006-07-03 08:32:09 · answer #2 · answered by mab5096 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decisions are a part of life that are never easy,especially when it comes to divorce.My experience was a marraige that after 4yrs was going bad,this was my first(and last)marraige.We sepeated divided everything,then months down the road would get back together.I tried several times to make it work,our children where 4 and 6months old at this time.Finally i had to realize that our breaking up then reconciling later was not how i wanted to raise my children,so with a broken heart i filed for divorce.He is a wonderful father but not a husband,he is still part of our childrens lives.Hope this helps you,Good luck,God bless:O)
2006-07-03 07:59:05 · answer #3 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will be the consequences of your decision? That is what will define "right" for you. Only you can decide if you can live with the consequences that arise from your decision. Try to weigh all the reasons, formulate your choices and think about what you can live with. What in life for you is a deal breaker. And then you'l never be sure it was right. Just move forward.
2006-07-03 08:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by folklore 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right things have a balanced existence,causing the least damage to other people and bringing the most benefit and pleasure to you.Right things enable you to enjoy greatest freedom practicing, mean whiles they don't usurp the freedom of other people or affect them the smallest negative effects.
2006-07-03 08:01:50 · answer #5 · answered by breezesky80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before you divorce, weigh all the options.
do you still love your partner?
can things be worked out?
will you both be happy with the decision?
talk it out and then decide
2006-07-09 15:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the old way is when the decision is agree by most of the ppl,
now the new way is the decision is make based on the luv to GOD and folow the teaching of GOD
2006-07-03 07:57:04 · answer #7 · answered by soulsourcel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't really know...you just have to hope an trust......i made a decision this morning that i had been thinking of for about a week.......an i hope it was the right one because it really hurt me........letting go is so hard to do
2006-07-03 08:01:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to consider all the factors, the pros and cons and then use some common sense.
2006-07-03 07:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen you heart and it will show you
2006-07-03 07:57:06 · answer #10 · answered by tony b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋