Or someone that can give me a website that is free that will really break my dream down and analyze it for me cause i have had two of the same similar dreams back to back, one night after another. In both of them my boyfriend is dying. In the first one I stabbed him cause he was supposedly bad and in the 2nd one, it was a car crash that was my fault. I love my boyfriend more than anything in this world and I would never want him dead, let kill him. There are more to these dreams but it would be too much detail but just from that small description of the dreams. what do they mean and why am i having them? I heard that when you dream of death, it doesn't necessarily mean death, it means something else. is that true? and if so, what does that mean?
2006-07-03 00:44:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Mythology & Folklore
Your subconsciousness is telling you to break up with him for some reason. or you are just under some stress and loosing it.
2006-07-03 00:49:06 · answer #1 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dreams can mean so many different things. As you say you love your boyfriend more than anything else in the world, these dreams could be expressing a fear you have of losing him - specicifically of doing something that will cause him to be gone from your life.
In the first dream you deliberately "lost" him. You misjudged him by seeing him as someone "bad" and you wanted to get rid of him in your dream. The second dream seems to be a response to your reaction to the first. It's saying, 'Okay, maybe you wouldn't intentionally try to lose him, but you could lose him through carelessness.'
Both dreams feel like a warning that you could do something to end the relationship. If there is something "not quite right" in your feelings for him, the dreams could be exploiting this, like, 'Well, what would you do if you find out he's really bad for you?'
Or maybe you have abruptly ended relationships before and you are warning yourself against a tendency to mistrust people or to get angry, or to be careless with those you've been close to in the past.
Hope this helps.
P.S. If you're interested in dream analysis you might want to try joining a couple of Yahoo groups on the subject.
2006-07-03 02:03:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetchild Danielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a couple of others mentioned: without greater detail a complete answer isn't possible.
Here is my immediate impression based on what you wrote.
What act has your boyfriend committed that you have yet to forgive him for? Or can you forgive him?
In the first dream you took an active role - wielding a knife: This is an act of passion (remember passion can manifest positively or negatively). You subconscious took action on that which has been repressed by your consciousness.
In the second dream you were still at fault, though passively: This is more of a warning that if you don't take action on the issue(s) in your relationship that you continue to accept without standing up for yourself then the relationship will die.
These following questions are for you to ponder and see what your own mind will reveal. Coupled with the details you have not shared; more light may be shed on what is going on.
Is the love you receive from your boyfriend equal to the love you give?
In what manner does he not respect you or your opinions?
Does he treat you differently in public than he does when you are alone?
Does he responds to your needs or only expects you to respond to his?
Ultimately my final intuitive sense on your dreams and your situation is:
Your relationship with your boyfriend is out of balance. You give more of yourself to the relationship then he. Your intuition (via the medium of your dreams) is expressing the level of repressed negative emotions you have for your boyfriend. You consciously claim to love him but you have been swallowing bitter pills for some time now.
You should take time away from the relationship to reflect on it and be open and honest with yourself. Trust the small voice inside you when it speaks up. You may come to the conclusion that you do love him and wish for the relationship to continue but on a much healthier course. To achieve this you may find that you will have to honor yourself and your needs more than you have been and stand strong when presenting such things to him.
Or you may find that ending the relationship is the best and healthiest decision.
Be well.
2006-07-03 07:55:14 · answer #3 · answered by mutterlink 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool...
I'm no expert for sure...but death or dreaming of someones death equates to exactly nothing.
Although YOUR mind is a mystery - your dreams generally are not secrets from yourself.
Killing someone familiar is typically conquering something that's stressing you out...that it was your boyfriend may simply be that he's the one you think of (for comfort) in stressful situations.
Seeing someone killed could be your mind asking - "what if...?"
Like "How lost would I be if this happened...?"
Are you getting too much sleep - more tha 8 hours?
- this leads to very graphic dreams....
so does sleep deprivation.
Have you been under undue stress or are you really angry with someone?
usually a great way to have violent dreams.
medication is another...(to include alcohol)
I hope this helps.
rest well - sweet dreams
2006-07-03 00:59:14 · answer #4 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death in a dream is the archetype for change. It is possible that you see yourself as the instrument for change in the first described dream and in the second dream it is an external forces causing this change brought about by you. Your sub conscious percieves the changes or the need for change even if you do not in your more conscious moments. It doesn't mean anyone is going to die if you dream about death. Over all it could be a real possitve thing coming together for you and your fellow, change is good.
2006-07-03 02:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best person to answer this, would undoubtedly be yourself.
Saying that, do you feel you are holding him back, perhaps? Stopping him from doing something? Do you think you are trying to change him in any way?
I wouldn't be concerned by these dreams too much. As you say, death in dreams, does not mean death in life, unless you are a bonefide psychic.
All the best.
2006-07-03 00:54:37 · answer #6 · answered by googlywotsit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just a stab in the dark (no pun intended), but I feel that death represents peace - finally coming to a conclusion that is void of consequence. If how you feel about your boyfriend is true, then perhaps you are so happy and peaceful with him that your dreams reflect just that. In the Tarot cards, I'm pretty sure the Death card represents change, so maybe your boyfriend has brought about new and wonderful feelings in your life and this is just how your dreams show them in your subconcious. I hope that makes sense.
2006-07-03 03:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Charles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, well im new at this and this is a first shot but from what youve told me that its your fault, your concious is telling you you did something to him, and hes upset or dieing in other words over it, try talking to him, the stabbing, could be a warning he wouldnt stab you in the back so dont stab him, later in the future this could come in handy.Thats for the stabbing, as for the reck, you've done something on the road have you made him feel upset in a care or, what kind of car was it? That could help with the clues and hints of your life. And as for all of the your faults all I can say is this, you feel in body and spirit your hurting him, in the relationship, before you met, i dont know this is strange, i have tryed i think watch yourself in the cars and his feelings, watch the road too, dreams can also be a warnig sign to danger ahead, i havent had one but im sure it could happen in your lifetime if you alow them! Even if it is 20 or 30 years down the road!
2006-07-03 10:13:42 · answer #8 · answered by Booboo B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry. If youknow you love him consciously, your subconscious could mean many things. This death thing could be sexual, for example. If you ask Freud, I am sure he'd say you want aa more active role in sex with him. This is not necessarily true, though. It could just mean you are afraid of losing him. We all see dreams that have to do with death of beloved ones, it doesn't mean we want their death, I dreamt a really good friend of mine was dead, and I really love her, and there's nothing sexual between us either. The subconscious is just weird. If this goes on and it bothers you, you could visit a psychanalyst, but don't let him drive you crazy!!
2006-07-03 07:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by cpinatsi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death in a dream can mean a few things...transformation, stagnation...but because you brought harm to him in both of your dreams, I must ask if you are doing something that he may not like (and i don't mean cheating or any of that because you said you love him). Subconsciously you may think that he is holding you back from something and that in order to do whatever it is that you want to do, you need to get rid of the obstacle....therefore in your dreams you kill him.
2006-07-03 00:56:36 · answer #10 · answered by pegasus8461 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Peach,
The first dream is about you saying something that brought great hurt to your bf or to your relationship with him. Your words were the knife. The second dream depends on whose car it was. If it was his car, then that indicates that something you did (since it was your fault) caused a serious problem with his job or vocation (car) that ended up really hurting your bf, or your relationship with him. If it was your car, then it was your job or other activity that "crashed", but it still hurt your bf (or your relationship with him) very much. I hope this helps, and I hope you and your bf will have a great relationship for many years to come!
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2006-07-04 02:28:20 · answer #11 · answered by Dreamseer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋