I was wih some one for about years or so. There is no use in details, the point is I loved him with my heart and soul and now after a wonderful year with my girlfriend I finally WANT to get over him. Now I want to know how long this bullshit is going to take. Not like I accept dates or anything, I just need some advice from someone who has been in love..and has been through wanting to be over someone, it is hard to still have a little bit of feelings for someone you hate (for our daughters custody situation) and want to hate more. Wish there was just a pill I could pop, I would do it to be over him and not hurt in a heartbeat.
2006-07-03 00:15:21 · 7 answers · asked by Joelyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
oops 5 years or so not like it matters......
2006-07-03 00:19:32 · update #1
It's a human affliction. Being open to someone also means allowing them the real you and you can be hurt. It's worth it, but can be seriously hurtful. You want more for your children and it hurts worse when they are not treated well. I found that with adult children too. Must be a mother thing. People who write to you are so supportive and I would say just keep writing and they will help you through this. Sometimes it's easier to talk to people who aren't involved or know everyone involved. Work through it, know your direction, protect those darlings and hold your head up.
2006-07-03 01:33:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please don't try to hate him...it is an unneccesary emotion and it will only drain you of your energy. Unfortunately, there is no easy cure for a heartbreak. I wish there were. It sounds as if you have moved on as you mentioned you have a girlfriend. I guess my question is, did you leave the relationship because you're gay...or did you start dating your gf because this man broke your heart? You can love someone and not be able to live with them. This is the father of your child...respect the role he plays in your daughter's life and please play fair when it comes to her...she had nothing to do with the break up. Please don't hate him, your daughter will pick up on this. The best revenge is to live a good life and to not let his actions or whatever role he played in the break up affect you in any way. It's done, it's over, move on. You can still have feelings for him...just know that the path to his bedroom door is closed for good (and please note I said "for good" as it sounds like you're living a happier life without him).
2006-07-03 00:58:35 · answer #2 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is never easy, i am divorced, and had an ex fiance that cheated on my, so i can definately feel your pain. Unfortunately there is no real easy way to get over it, you just need to try and move on with your life. Hopefully you have friends or family around that can help, it doesnt hurt to talk with them about it either. I do wish you the best of luck
2006-07-03 00:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it hurts only when i c a open heart surgery on the tv
ne way
life is two short to left out enjoy every moment of it.
life is not the amounts of breaths you take
its the moments that take your breath away
take care
2006-07-03 00:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry I don't think I still have a heart..its seems had abandoned me and now I don't take any risk.
2006-07-03 00:20:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heart has been broken for years now, no hopes of repair
2006-07-03 00:16:53 · answer #6 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, but mine was from shoveling snow last winter
2006-07-03 00:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋