2006-07-02 23:48:14 · 29 answers · asked by edsoames 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why not, i was going with a young lady for that purpose alone, she was having problems getting pregnant with her boyfriend so she asked me to help
2006-07-03 05:14:14 · answer #1 · answered by goldtop 2 · 7⤊ 2⤋
No No No whatever you do,there are other ways for her to get pregnant,please don't get tangled up in there desperate bid to have a child ,you could spend the rest of your life regretting it,what if he can't live with the fact that you fathered her baby and leaves ,legally you are responsible for that child do you really want that until the child grows up and what if you meet the woman of your dreams and have children of your own knowing you have another child ? think about it,please don't ruin your friendship or your life over trying to make someone else happy ,it simply is not worth all the stress and trouble that could arise in later years
2006-07-03 04:27:03 · answer #2 · answered by okayalder62 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As nice an idea as it might be... to help out your friend etc.. it sounds like a great way to mess up a friendship, and create a whole host of other problems.
He will always know you slept with his wife (ok, even if it is with his consent, jealously can still creep in) and, if it did work, you will always know that would be your child, and maybe their parenting might not be the way you would do it.
I think in situations like that, if they really need help, it should be from an anonymous source.
2006-07-02 23:54:36 · answer #3 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure this is a great idea as it can ruin your friendship, if they are successful in having a baby with your sperm donor would you be happy knowing that they are the parents of this child and you will have no say/rights. you should seriously stop adn think and possibly think of writing up a contract that you all agree to should you really want to help them.
2006-07-03 02:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by Bubblygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shame on you, your friend and his wife if you do this. they should accept the situation and have some faith in the god. I think if the wife get divorced and find other husband to have baby from will be better and more honestly, and the husband can marry single mother. what are going to tell the baby when grow up?? your real father is your father's friend??
2006-07-03 00:06:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes climb into her bed and ask her her husband wants to join in so he doesnt feel left out
2006-07-02 23:55:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to consider this very carefully as it could have significant implications in the future...you all need to sit down seriously and think this through very carefully before committing to it...as a mother of four I cannot imagine what it would be like not to have been able to have any...but this option for you is only one of many options available to them...think carefully and if you decide to go ahead...I wish you all every success and happiness!
2006-07-02 23:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by amelia_madeline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You go give your donation in a little cup. Then the doctor takes a turkey baster and delivers your donation to the needy. Don't go and mess up your friendship.
2006-07-02 23:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they have asked you to help (and any partner you have is okay with the setup) then yeah, go ahead...
You'll need to do it several times a day and night over at least a few weeks to make sure she is pregnant... ;)
2006-07-02 23:54:51 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will have to climb in bed too many times. That's just nasty. You can donate your sperm or they can go to a sperm bank but you bed hopping NOPE
2006-07-02 23:58:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done this for a friend, sure if husband says OK,,,
I had a good friend that wanted a baby, I helped her
we talk every so often, it worked out fine~~~~~
2006-07-03 00:19:50 · answer #11 · answered by timestamps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋