The few relationships I have been in were full of lies, deceit, and cheating. But since elementary school I have had the gift of that "gut" feeling of another girl/woman and have been right eversince. I am now in a predicament where I do not have a feeling re:another woman, just that alot of things aren't quite right. I'm a patient person but just how long do I continue letting areas of question unfold. it's been 7 months. ie: i do not know where he works or lives, his children are not aware of me, though he had spoken "i love you" in front of the children when he supposedly visited. He claims he doesnot live with the boys, i think he does due to certain reasons yet an inklin . My kids know him. He knows where I live and such.My attitude has chg'd completely since a few incidents have occurred ie: 1-caught in a lie and all of the above. I generally see him only once a week. He doesn't spend the night; he's done that 2 nights that were planned for NY anyway so that doesn't count.
2006-07-02 23:30:34 · 4 answers · asked by ~BluemoonAngel~ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
hrmm sounds like you are just a FWB (friends with benefit) to him....regardless of what he says ...if he wanted more from the relationship...you would think that 7months down the line you'd know where he lives and works.
2006-07-02 23:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Hooligan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a secretive type. If you ask me, he is up to something - maybe just wanting to have his cake and eat it if you understand that. Maybe he still wants to be one of the boys and act like a single guy but then have the security of having you in the background for him to fall back on. You should tell him to grow up and act like a proper man by telling you how he feels about you instead of stringing you along. After 7 months you should know where he lives and a lot more besides. You need to tell him straight - you have been giving and he has just been taking. Wake him up or get rid of him!
Good luck and remember, you deserve much more than he has been giving you, don't let him get away with it for a second longer, you're worth much much more!
2006-07-03 06:36:15 · answer #2 · answered by Tatsbabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months.
2006-07-03 06:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE GIVING HIM AN OUT
EITHER ASK HIM STRAIGHT UP OR GET OUT YOURSELF
2006-07-03 06:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by JULIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋