If man will know my weakness, do you think man will accept me?
I have certain worries and feelings of guilt, inadequacy or inferiority. Occasionally I encounter crisis of situations where I do not functions well at all. I suffer Insomnia, periods of depression, even loss of appetite; basically because of the challenges I had in life. Do you think man can deal up with this kind of unusual behavior of a woman?
2006-07-02 22:48:23 · 20 answers · asked by -- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
lf he loves you will accept you, but will enjoy if you change somethings
2006-07-02 22:51:42 · answer #1 · answered by ice cream with chocolate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not unusual to be battle-worn from life and the most sympathetic and kind people are often found among those with a few scars. It is not a perfect world we live in, that's why we all need to help each other. Those with a few emotional scars knows this can hard and that knowledge is a quality. You have something to offer, you have worth. Don't ask if he might want you, or can he accept you? Is he mature enough to appreciate your qualities? Friendship and love will provide that maturity. If he is not the one, there will be someone that is that one (all you need is one, that shouldn't be a problem).
Is he accepting YOU, if he doesn't know YOU.
Do yourself the favor to be honest with yourself and him. What are going to do, hide who you are (or were) indefinitely?
Would it not be the greatest boost to your self-esteem to know that he loves YOU exactly the way YOU ARE. Together you can change if he is worth it and if he isn't worth it (ie. that your real person blows him away), then you need somebody better than that.
You have gone through those challenges that now are behind you. That gives you experience with a value that must be appreciated and if he can't appreciate that (if he has had no challenges in life, if he has no little scars of his own) then you may not make a balanced couple.
But, don't give up now, if you want to change your world, do it for real. Start by changing yourself. I know what I am talking about. If you take things a piece-at-a-time and tackle something a little harder than your usual limits, you'll end liking yourself for it (feel better about yourself) and other people will treat you better.
It's amazing how strong you can feel after facing (and winning) just a small battle even if you chose when and where to fight it.
A great life's just a bunch of little battles taken one at a time.
Today will pass whatever you do with it and however small a battle you win today will give you an advanced standing on tomorrow. Every small battle makes you a winner.
2006-07-02 23:35:55 · answer #2 · answered by ghost 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse- especially if he truely loves you...!!! Love is not only the good times but also the bad times that have to be shared. Love is not about accepting the strengths but also accepting the weakness of the one you love.
And if you suffer from all the above mentioned things and if the guy who really loves you would support you and get you out of the problems that you have been in...!!
2006-07-02 22:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sakshi C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he can.. hay men go throw thes things also. dont give up
you sound like a young lady .between 20 -25 you just had a break up?
hay if you need a shoulder to lean on we are here. im 37m and i have had all of these but i did not lose my appetite i ate and ate to try and get out of the problem but it did not work. and i am vert depressed. but im living .
im trying to find my answers to life and why it is the way it is also
2006-07-03 04:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men won't accept you if you are full of trouble.
However, if you take time to correct your weakness such as guilt and others, yes, men will accept you, give you times and make sure you feel good about yourself.
That man, has to be someone tough and knows how to take good care of you.
2006-07-02 22:52:51 · answer #5 · answered by CuriousBro 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. The point of a relationship is to be able to share each others problems and help each other through the hard times and if your willing to help someone else through their problems i'm sure someone will do the same for you.
2006-07-02 22:57:27 · answer #6 · answered by Kirsty J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chill yaar these are physical weaknesses and if he loves u he ll accept u all of those!!
and who knows probably he might also be having some weaknesses...as everybody else have...so he ll surely understand u
but remember this will happen only if u are true to him and tell him everything ana make everythng crystal clear
best of luck
2006-07-02 22:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by just yrs! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your weaknesses can be your strength.Dont get deep in life...you will hurt yourself.Play it cool and enjoy.Nobody is perfect and not everybody sleeps on the bed of roses
2006-07-02 23:10:47 · answer #8 · answered by fatalfaisal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about these things.
Noone is perfect and we all have weaknesses.
So grow up and accept that.
No man would decline you for that.
2006-07-02 22:56:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kumar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all the mens will selfish and they also play withu and any ne dont help ubecaz they think that they will get better than u and a men never get satisfied with his partner.all mens will be selfish.bye dude.
2006-07-02 22:54:32 · answer #10 · answered by bashwetaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm preety sure a matured man will accept you
2006-07-02 22:54:40 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋