Im ready to have sex but im so worried about being bad! can anyone give me some tips (detailed) that i could do make it more enjoyable for me but most importantly my man (i wanna keep him coming back for more), i dont wanna be just laying there (even tho im sure i will since it will be my first time) but even tho ill be on the bottom isnt there something i could do for him? to make him like it just as much as i am?
*please give detailed and all help is appreciated <3
2006-07-02 22:42:41 · 8 answers · asked by Alisha 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
your comments where great, but i want a more elbaorate detail, like what kind of motions do i make if im on top? (im a virgin) what kind of things could i do to make it enjoyable if im on the bottom/ top (both.)
2006-07-02 22:56:38 · update #1
Well if you get us to eat you out first and beg to be on the bottom then your more or likely going to get hi to do all the work. If you really want to please him bring out the whip cream and chocolate syrup and well make sundays on eachother and kiss him from the mouth to the cock and suck for a minute and say my turn and he will do the resy. if he is harry don't do the sunday thing. it kind of gets messy. and oh gusy like shaved. it shows you are not a virgin. just a hint.
2006-07-02 22:49:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 9⤋
(added on next morning)
Just a hunch but is your Boyfriend over 18 and you under 18?
Is he trying to manipulate you be telling you about his old girlfriends? This sounds like you are in trouble whether you know it or not.
STOP & Think, Is this what you want for your life?
Is this how you will choose a husband. Live your life with the end result in mind.
You are playing with Fire, and if you continue you will get burned.
It sounds like you are trying to take the fast track to Hell.
If that is what your partner is into, you need to seriously ask yourself if they are using you.
My suggestion for you is to Stop. Find something else to fill your time. Continue down this road and You will get hurt. You will feel used and your self esteem will sink to desperation. You could easily get a disease or a few & Possibly pregnant.
Who told you that you need to be sexy and to give sexual pleasure at your age? You sound young.
Don't buy into the lie. You need to make a 180 degree turn and RUN. Don't you realize that you are the Youest, You that there will ever be. You are a valuable person. If you continue in this promisquity you will loose yourself.
Don't believe MTV and Movies and songs. The happiest people in the world are not happy from doing it. Love comes from the heart and not from the sex organs.
Live a wholdsome life. If this is what your partner wants from you. You don't need him. Find someone who values you and don't have sex with them. This so called partner is out of there when he is through yousing you and making you feel cheep and used. Don't dress so sexy. Find someone who is attracted to you and not to a body that you want to use.
How will you feel when he is done with you?
Then He'll probably insult you and move on to his next victum..
For now take a break from him. And take a break from Movies , TV Music anything which is projecting that it's only about Sex and that everyone is doing it. Guess What. Waiting until Marriage is comming back into fashion. Try it you might like it.
An interesting thing is if you stay Pure and Chaste on your dates the boys will follow you around like a puppy dog just wanting to be near you. Wait until you are married. You don't need the drama and heartache which go along with being sexually active. Please consider these words. You will be glad you did. You will probably also choose a more sutiable spouse to spend your life with.
God Bless You,. Be Good,
2006-07-03 05:55:19 · answer #2 · answered by Deena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask this then you should either not be with this boyfriend or not having sex at all. He should care enough to help you out and you should feel confident enough in the two of you together to not feel this much pressure. It is weird that you say you're a virgin...most virgins are scared of the pain, not how good they're going to be. But, he should be understanding and slow and you should just relax. Practice makes "perfect" right?!
By the way...everything that Deena said is 100% correct!
2006-07-03 06:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not have intercourse by being on top and that way you can do all the moving you want and you have all the control so you can make it wild. Also you can experiment with other positions like Doggy Stype, missionary, and add some Foreplay before the real action.
2006-07-03 05:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hire some pron from the video store and take notes, that's how my wife got to know these things
2006-07-03 05:46:50 · answer #5 · answered by REAPER_ENTERPRISES 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get on top. . . he'll love the view!
2006-07-03 05:45:49 · answer #6 · answered by sgt. pepper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not too sure
2006-07-03 07:15:52 · answer #7 · answered by nicegirl187smile 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please use protection remember : UNWANTED PREAGNANCY-S.T.Ds-AIDS-HERPES
2006-07-03 05:48:17 · answer #8 · answered by zone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋