I fell in love with a man, stayed with him for a year. As we were about to live together he decided to move away back home, telling me that he had to deal with family issues and get other things in his life strait and done. He tells me that he still loves me and has a million excuses why he can't be with me. Does he now love me or has he decided that I am just not the one for him. We have broke up now, will we ever get back together.
2006-07-02 22:08:56 · 19 answers · asked by Tia T 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
be sure that your guy is telling the truth, if he has some sort of family financial problems you have to understand that he is not ready and has priorities over you. if you really love each other he will find a way you will find a way, your love for each other will find a way. right now dont worry too much about that focus on yourself more. guys are not the only reason why were here on earth struggling for living.
2006-07-02 22:19:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen up!
If he has excuses for why he can't be with you and you are not together, he is lying. Maybe he does "care" for you however, that does not mean true love. He could possible have secrets and things you don't know about. Especially if he doesn't want to live with you. What is he hiding?
Also, he moved back home? Financially what does that say about him? Can he grow up and take care of himself?
Now getting into that, I must say that he may not be ready for an adult relationship.
If you are, you need to find a man that will grow up and talk straight to you about what is going on. Don't sit and take excuses because you can't grow from that kind of starting base in a relationship.
2006-07-03 05:13:35 · answer #2 · answered by JaMaMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go by what people say, but by their actions, as "Actions speak louder that words". I would say that if he moved away just before you were about to move in together, then continued to make excuses about it, I would say that was a pretty clear indication of his intentions. Consider yourself lucky, as you are worthy of someone better than that, and you will know when the right guy comes along, as he will treat you with respect, love, honesty and consideration. Don't even consider getting back with him, as he is too immature and dishonest for you or anyone. Good luck dear, and move on.
2006-07-03 05:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Crowfeather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry. I can tell that you are hurting. If it's hurting like that, then it isn't a good thing. I am not sure why he had to move back home. I mean, I could understand if he had an ill family member, etc., that he was going to care for temporarily or something. Otherwise, it sounds like he is making life changes alone.
2006-07-03 05:15:00 · answer #4 · answered by soozemusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt really sound like it if he has a million and one excuses why you two cant be together. I would move on and live your life hun. Many more fish in the sea....Go find a better catch. No sense sitting around wasting your time on him.
2006-07-03 05:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Stars-Moon-Sun 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does it mean you both lived like couples ? Whatever, now that he has gone, it means that he may just love you but not ready to stay with you and take your responsibility. Even if he comes back and marries you, you both will not be happy. Better to look at him as a Lover and be happy. It is better to be far and yet be near instead of being near and yet be far.
2006-07-03 05:15:54 · answer #6 · answered by R N V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmmm, let me stare into my crystal ball............
How the f*ck do we know if you will ever get back together with this guy?
The question is: Do YOU want to be with a man that you don't even trust (you obviously don't or you wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers whether you should be staying with him or not)?
2006-07-03 05:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by Pisces 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try to get over him... There are other people out there who is concern of you..
And i can bet you that there will be someone who is much better than him whom you deserve better...
Look at the number of replies you get from posting a question here.. It goes to shows that even strangers whom you never met before can even be showing concern for you and advice you..
So.. Live your life to the fullest.. Do not dwell on the past..
Remember.. Someone out there is actually waiting for you.. He perhaps just need the right moment to ask you to be his...
Cheer up my fren...
Cheers... (",)
2006-07-03 05:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by Ellusive Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry...I don't think he loves you. He wants to have you available for him, if you haven't pushed him to move with you he would still be with you because that is exactly what he wants, otherwise what trouble can be when 2 people wants to be together?
Sorry, I don't mean to hurt you but I tend to make my decisions and opinions by facts or people's attitudes. If he says he loves you why his action doesn't demonstrate this love by staying with you?
2006-07-03 05:14:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only he and God know what is in his heart. If you are broken up then even if he does love you, he doesn't want to be with you. He made up excuses trying to get you to see that but apparently some people need a steamroller to stamp it on them.
2006-07-03 05:14:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋