Is it wrong to really like some one, but they have a girlfriend!
i cant stop or put these feelings aside!
i feel guilty that i like him due to his girlfriend, but i feel i need my own feelings to think about also?
2006-07-02 21:58:29 · 32 answers · asked by supernova 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
and should i tell him... we are friends we go out, but am i reading to much into it!
2006-07-02 22:06:04 · update #1
Take a break from them. You may find that you are too close to these people and not seeing the rest of the world. There are many people out there and I can guarantee there is someone who you will love more than any other and will worship the ground on which you walk. Trust me he is there, have a look for him.
The answer is it is not wrong but nor is it right, so go find that man, you have to turn many stones to find a gem!
2006-07-03 02:02:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be wrong to have these feelings, feelings after all cannot always be helped. But it would definately be wrong to act on them. Your friend has a girlfriend and it would be selfish to ruin that based on your own feelings. Try to put this out of your mind and find someone who is free to like you back.
2006-07-02 22:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by good tree 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right, your feelings are important. It's fine to have feelings for someone who is unattainable (albeit sometimes frustrating). Some people would go as far as to suggest that you can tell the person that you like them - that's not doing something wrong, it's just getting your feelings out in the open.
Either way, there's nothing wrong with your feelings :)
2006-07-02 22:05:24 · answer #3 · answered by drifty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if your thinking about acting on them. Wishing, hoping, and dreaming .. that's one thing ... acting is another. Do you know the girlfriend at all? How does he feel about her? If he is happy you need not to break that when you may not make his as happy. There is a lot involved with something like this and I suggest you think hard before doing anything.
2006-07-02 22:03:44 · answer #4 · answered by JaMaMe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not wrong.but dont put your life on hold for this person.You are young and there is a good chance that it will not last forever with this guy so who knows,you may have your shot next.It never hurts to be friendly and have feelings for someone as long as you don't show them or try to break them up so you can have him.
2006-07-02 22:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong to like someone who already has a girlfriend! guess you're just out of luck...
and yes you are right you should think about your feelings also. but don't ever hurt their ((his and his girlfriend's)) feelings to make yourself feel better.
2006-07-02 22:03:47 · answer #6 · answered by undercover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isnt wrong you cant help the way you feel but dont feel guilty, just dont do anything about these feelings until he is no longer with his girlfriend
2006-07-02 22:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't wrong but how would u feel if u were his gf and some other girl was coming onto him, it wouldn't be very nice! just be patient and wait till he splits up with her! u could make it blantenly obvious to him tho that u like him just so he knows then it's up to him to make any decision's and that's beyond your control if he decides to leave her and be with u but still if he'll drop her like that how do u know he won't drop u when someone else comes along.
2006-07-02 22:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by blondebirdcrazy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's wrong, The best solution may be the time. I am sure you will find a more excellent boyfriend.
There are many good things we cannot get, we should face it although it may be difficult to do so.
Best wishes!
2006-07-02 22:09:32 · answer #9 · answered by L H Tang 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong to have feelings towards another person whether they have someone else or not,i dont know what you should do though because if you told him he might feel uncomforable around you,or he might feel the same way,sorry if im not much help,hope everything goes ok
2006-07-02 22:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋