I have been seeing this girl for a little while now. I just recently proposed to her. Since then I have done somethings to hurt her and dont know what to do. I took something from her without telling her and I also talked to another women on the messenger while I was at work and she found. I know that I have hurt her and her two little boys. This has made me sick to my stomach that I have hurt someone that I love so much. Is there any chance that this can be fixed and if so how can I go about doing it. She is the greatest thing in the world that has happened to me and dont want to lose her. I have broken off all ties with the girl that I talked to through the messenger. Is there a chance that this can be worked out. I cant forgive myself for what I have done and if I cant be with her and her two children I dont want to be with anyone because this is whre my heart trully desires to be.
2006-07-02 21:45:20 · 8 answers · asked by lbenoit_53 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
A woman who is a single parent must be doubly careful in choosing her partner. Don't be surprised if she decides you're not a stable enough prospect.
2006-07-02 21:50:29 · answer #1 · answered by ladybugewa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really this is up to the women and if she will choose to forgive u and move on....Apolize and ask if u can start over..another suggestion...grovel!Don't know exactly what u did so i don't know what else to tell u.....something tells me u were doing more then just talking to some women on line.
2006-07-03 04:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if this is so important to you and you love her, why did you take the risk of losing it all as you did?
Then tell her. If you find that perhaps you were unsure or not ready then be honest and tell her.What ever at this point you need to be honest. Good Luck
2006-07-03 04:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by celtic-tides04@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she's looking at it as cheating and you've got quite a problem if she is. I'd say, let her alone for a while and maybe, just maybe, she might come around. Think about what would happen if she did it to you !!!
2006-07-03 04:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by quiet times 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you telling us for? All you can do is tell her how you feel. And basically it's up to her.... Good luck and one thing to think about. Why did you do this in the first place...
2006-07-03 05:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see, it's like this: single moms tend to be at guard always because of their situation. so you have to prove to her, really really prove to her that you're sorry with what you have done and assure her that it won't ever happen again. woo her...show her how much you love her. be romantic. do things that would make her cry with joy.
2006-07-03 04:53:40 · answer #6 · answered by warrior is a child 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
billie joel said it best.... tell her about it
tell her how you feel
it can only open the flood gates or set the damn in stone...
2006-07-03 04:51:10 · answer #7 · answered by jrteter2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't be saying this to us, you should say this to your girlfriend.
2006-07-03 04:52:21 · answer #8 · answered by vampire_kitti 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋