should i b uncomfortable with my boyfriend still talkin alot to his babymomma that stilll wants to b w/ him? they dont hang out or anything. i konow he has to because of the child and he says he dont want to b w/ her its just a friendship and that he loves me and only wants to b w/ me and will never leave me. he wants everything to b kool inbetween him and her. and should she know about us? i have never met her or anything though and his bestfriend stephanie and her man says i dont have anything to worrie about, i just dont know cause i know they once had something 4 each other. i love him alot and i dont wanna b hurt. been there to many times in the past. i kinda dont think he would hurt me like that though. help!!!! lol!!
2006-07-02 21:42:31 · 4 answers · asked by mandy l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sounds to me like you found yourself a good guy, that he is still wanting to be involved in his child's life. He has integrity, and if I were you I'd feel grateful, not jealous. :-) You giving him your support in this area will strengthen his love and gratitude for you. A guy with integrity needs a woman with the same maturity. Reactive jealousy of his ex will only make you seem immature. If you can't handle being with a man with a child, then you should've stayed clear. This is who he IS -- and if you really love him, you'll accept and support him in being a good daddy to his child.
But i also agree with the above post -- you need to discuss all your feelings with him, but not with anger: with LOVE. You know!
2006-07-03 00:11:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well it seems that you trust him and that you r just worried.. :P I think you shouldnt worry too much because if he doesnt like you and likes her he wouldnt be with you ... I would say that it would be good if he had told her about you but he may have a reason not doing it... Talk about it with him but dont show him u r jealous or angry... Just TALK .. He'll appriciate your honesty.. Tell him how u feel about it and tell him that you love him n dont want to lose him.. Ask him why he doesnt tell her about ur relationship and he might come with a reasonable answer.. If u love each other dont let something like that ome between you..
Best of luck!!
2006-07-03 05:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very important and proper for a father to have a relationship with his child. If this is all it is, and time will tell, then don't try to stop this. But if its more than just that, not COOL!
2006-07-03 04:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by celtic-tides04@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK THIS IS WHAT I CAN TELL YOU........HE HAS TO TALK TO HER NO MATTER WHAT! EVEN IF HE DOESNT WANT TO HE HAS TO FOR THE SAKE OF THE BABY! I KNOW BABY CUZ MY MAN TALKS TO HIS BABY'S MAMA AND IT TOOK ME A LONG *** WHILE FOR ME TO GET USED TO IT....BUT I CONVICED MYSELF THAT THEY ARE NO LONGER TOGEHTER AND THEIR IS NO WAY IN HELL THEY COULD EVER BE BACK TOGETHER......TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME HONEY.....
BUT TO BE REALLY HONEST YOU ARE YOUNG! AND YOU NEED TO EXPLORE NEW THINGS AND BEGINNGS! AND YOU REALLY DONT NEED THAT DRAMA IN YOUR LIFE HONEY...BUT IF YOU LOVE YOUR MAN NO MATTER WHAT.....GO AHEAD AND STAY WITH HIM AND I HOPE THINGS GOES WELL FOR THE BOTH OF YOU LATER ON IN LIFE
2006-07-03 04:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋