2006-07-02 21:30:34 · 12 answers · asked by R B 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
You are playing with Fire, and if you continue you will get burned.
It sounds like you are trying to take the fast track to Hell.
If that is what your partner is into, you need to seriously ask yourself if they are using you.
My suggestion for you is to Stop. Find something else to fill your time. Continue down this road and You will get hurt. You will feel used and your self esteem will sink to desperation. You could easily get a disease or a few & Possibly pregnant.
Who told you that you need to be sexy and to give sexual pleasure at your age? You sound very young.
Don't buy into the lie. You need to make a 180 degree turn and RUN. Don't you realize that you are the Youest, You that there will ever be. You are a valuable person. If you continue in this promisquity you will loose yourself.
Don't believe MTV and Movies and songs. The happiest people in the world are not happy from doing it. Love comes from the heart and not from the sex organs.
Live a wholdsome life. If this is what your partner wants from you. You don't need him. Find someone who values you and don't have sex with them. This so called partner is out of there when he is through yousing you and making you feel cheep and used. Don't dress so sexy. Find someone who is attracted to you and not to a body that you want to use.
I tell you that you can do all you want to try to give him pleaseure. Most likely you will do more than you ever wanted to do or should do before marriage. Then He'll probably insult you and move on to his next victum..
For now take a break from him. And take a break from Movies , TV Music anything which is projecting that it's only about Sex and that everyone is doing it. Guess What. Waiting until Marriage is comming back into fashion. Try it you might like it.
By the way the things you are talking about, is Sex. Don't kid yourself. If it involves stimulating the sex organs yours or his it is Sex.
An interesting thing is if you stay Pure and Chaste on your dates the boys will follow you around like a puppy dog just wanting to be near you. Wait until you are married. You don't need the drama and heartache which go along with being sexually active. Please consider these words. You will be glad you did. You will probably also choose a more sutiable spouse to spend your life with.
God Bless You,. Be Good,
2006-07-02 22:44:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should figure out what you consider sex and what you're willing to do. Then, you should talk to your parner about everything. If he isn't understanding about how you want to remain a virgin-leave him. You don't need some horny little boy bringing you down. I think its awesome that you're a virgin!
2006-07-03 04:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should do nothing..if this guy doesn't want to wait for u hes not worth it.. all the things u can do besides sex..will lead to sex..so if staying a virgin is your goal..u should do nothing below the waist...in my opinion
2006-07-03 04:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by blindswordsman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well this is not possible unless it is oral and then you just need to find out what makes your partner tick and concentrate on doing it better and trying new techniques.
2006-07-03 04:35:03 · answer #4 · answered by jlthomas75844 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
want me 2 show you some things?
2006-07-03 04:33:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant hun.
masterbation, fondling and making out is safe.
good work on keeping your virginity though. *-^
2006-07-03 04:56:28 · answer #6 · answered by mama_prito 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do a treesome
and ull do is kiss him or watch or do the other girl
2006-07-03 04:35:32 · answer #7 · answered by mjsn_18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oral sex. and learn to use your fingers really well.
2006-07-03 04:34:19 · answer #8 · answered by late_sleeper35 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
impossible
2006-07-03 04:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try oral sex, you will love it
2006-07-03 04:33:53 · answer #10 · answered by boy_jam_arch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋