Should I keep trying to make things better, or should I just wait to see if she's worth it to come around? And how?
2006-07-02 20:56:32 · 13 answers · asked by bean 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. They may seem like a Godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.
Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.!
just say;
Thank you for being a part of my life, whether you were a reason, a season.
2006-07-02 21:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by Farjana 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Theres probably a reason why she dosent wanna be bfs n e more. Unless your like 12 and just going through the awkard teen age stages and shes mad at you or something for smiling at her boyfriend....who knows? I stopped wanting to be best friends with my best friend for various, and understandable reasons and I can honestly say that if she tried to pursue a friendship between the two of us, again, I wouldnt be interested but it depends on your situation. Examine all aspects of it and youll come up with a good solution.
good luck :)
2006-07-03 04:02:52 · answer #2 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was your best friend she would let you know why she does not want to be friends with you any more and mabe you dont need her friends are important and usally you can really count your true friends on one hand and she abviosly does not count you on that one hand. I would ask her to go to lunch sit down and talk it out if you still dont feel right than leave and let her know that you have had a good time spending time with her and say goodbye
2006-07-03 05:05:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a clarification.
& u r not alone.
I presume u r in ur teenage, & it happens once with everyone, often with solid reasons for the withdrawing person.
Go ahead & find out.
Maybe NOW is when he/she needs u most.
2006-07-03 04:01:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. If you been through a lot together, and she is bailing now, then she isn't worth it. good luck
2006-07-03 04:00:55 · answer #5 · answered by lightningviper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask what is the reason for breaking the friendship. If no reply then tell " Bharr me Jao " ,, duniya bahot bari hei ...
2006-07-03 04:06:20 · answer #6 · answered by PrinceCharming 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went throw that this summer and i just made new friends so see why and see if u can fix what's wrong
2006-07-03 04:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by amber1320012000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her "Later" !!!!!!!!
And get another best friend!!!
Never beg for someone's friendship
if they are your true friend they will always
be there.
2006-07-03 04:04:56 · answer #8 · answered by cheyenne2471 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think
that you two
shooooooooould just kiss and make-up.
KISSY KISSY KISSY ;-)
ok
and maybe i can film a porno after, theres nothing better then make-up sex. right?
XD
ok sorry, couldn't help it, but make this pointless and unhelping.
2006-07-03 22:24:08 · answer #9 · answered by adilicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i always think that a friend who run doesnt deserve ur friendship........
find anew friend coz i dnt think that she deserve ur loyalty and care
2006-07-03 04:03:02 · answer #10 · answered by plosom_87 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋