2006-07-02 20:27:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Leave him. You're better off without out that cheating, no-good person.
2006-07-09 15:58:36 · answer #1 · answered by jane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two need a good talk.
Why stay with someone who cheats?
Prove it and then move on.
You deserve better.
If he is a true man he would be taking care of you and making sure that you feel loved and treausred. What he does now is a predictor of the future. Are you up for having long term problems with this guy.? I believe people can change. Not sure he will.
Run......don't walk.
2006-07-03 03:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Engagement is part of the matrimonial process - it's a commitment to become a bridal pair.
This is the time when you work out issues like trust and communication. The way you work through this time with your fiancee is the way you can expect to work through all serious matters for the rest of your lives together.
- my personal take on cheating during engagement is - the engagements off. If you have evidence...not just jealous supposition...you need to sit down and clearly identify that your limits have been exceeded....and take it from there.
Let him know and let him go...or let him grow.
It's up to you...
good luck
2006-07-03 03:35:05 · answer #3 · answered by Warrior 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fiance - haven't talked to him in 5 days. I take it he's not a soldier deployed somewhere? If he is, give him time. He might not be able to speak with you. Also consider if he's hurt/injured. If he's a guy in town (and the previous 2 are ruled out): Bounce, you don't need that. He's not ready for marriage if he can't even talk to you at least on the phone daily.
2006-07-03 03:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Jacob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would certainly suggest calling off the wedding and going from fiance to boyfriend...
Any reason why he hasn't contacted you in 5 days??? Seems a little odd.. And why do you think he is cheating???
2006-07-03 03:31:38 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first to stay quite for sometimes is not wise if you are happy with whatever you have you should talked to him so you can sorte something out together before its too late?so dont keep things in your heart thars killed you speak it out maybe is a very understanding person so learn to be open with yourself so he we learn and understand how you feel. so if he can change maybe from that time you will talk to him?so if is cheating on you so ask everything happen with a reason so they is a reason?
2006-07-03 03:36:31 · answer #6 · answered by mima t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope!, I'd never go 5 days without talking to the girl i was going to marry. and what are the signs besides him leaving you alone for 5 days? i'd say that's more then enough proof he doesn't care about you anymore.
2006-07-03 03:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by NTH IQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends girl, what kinds of signs are you talking about....One thing Ive learned from my past relationships are, when a woman has that "FEELING" that inside gut feeling about something...shes "ALWAYS" right...you know in your heart when somethings not right...and if thats how you feel, you should approach him about it...and like always when they become real defensive...then hes cheating..besides your real pretty, you can do better....
2006-07-03 03:33:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sure , he is cheating , but of curse, with full proof , Yes you must call it a day to stop future's dark days yet to come in your life .
2006-07-03 03:33:47 · answer #9 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Should you get a rattlesnake for a pet? Sweetie, stick with men (and pets) who will love you and treat you right.
2006-07-03 03:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by Rainfog 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋