me and the guy are kinda fighting we realy havent said 2 words to each other in the last week..how do i bring this up to him?
2006-07-02 20:13:05 · 9 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
take a test first if u are just hand him the test
2006-07-02 20:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by kylergsmom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do two things first.
1) Find out if you are pregnant. Not with a home kit. See a doctor and make sure one way or the other.
2) If you are pregnant, you have to decide what role the father is able and willing to play. It's not fair to the guy (I can say that because I am one) but the baby priorities trump both his and yours now. If that truth doesn't suit you, consider adoption or abortion.
If you are willing to make the baby your first priority, seek guidance to figure out who is best suited to care for the baby. Let that be your guide.
Peace.
2006-07-03 03:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Johnny Tezca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all make sure if you are pregnant or not. If you are, be a grown up, get medical attention and information, and tell the father of the baby. If you are not mature enough to handle this, you should not be having sex with someone who you don't want a lifetime tie to as parents.
2006-07-03 10:08:49 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first make sure you know for sure that you are preggers, or it will just cause even more drama. If you are, there's no easy way to tell him. Just call him and tell him you need to see him to tell him something important, and give him the big news, then you can go from there. Hopefully he's a good, mature guy who will stand by you and help you through this, as he is just as responsible as you are.
2006-07-03 03:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by jellybean24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi. You should tell your boyfriend about your pregnancy. Find a better place and time to tell him but you should do this as soon as possible. Talk nicely to him that you are pregnant. He would be either be happy or be sad about the news. If he is happy, then start planning of the best thing for your baby like pre-natal check-ups. If your boyfriend gets mad, then start planning of telling your parents about your pregnancy. If you are under-age, please expect them to get mad, but believe me, they will help you. They love you. Then tell your parents about your boyfriend's reaction. They will help you to talk to your boyfriend's parents. Don't be scared.
My cousin, Kashmirah was pregnant two years ago. She was scared of telling her boyfriend about her pregnancy even telling to her parents about it. She then told her friends about her pregnancy. When she was finally convinced by her friends to tell her boyfriend about her pregnancy, She then tell her boyfriend about her situation. Her boyfriend got mad and told her that he will never face the problem. The only good thing about her is she stand strong and brave. She told her parents about her pregnancy and guess what? My aunt helped her to get a financial support from the guy. Now the kid is 2 years old. And she's now happy with her new husband. So sad for the guy. He regreted the time he turned his back to my cousin.
Hope I'd helped. Just email/chat me anytime you need someone you can talk to... Ok? Thanks and good health to you and your baby. Be safe always and God Bless.
2006-07-03 05:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by CaRoLiNe-GLeN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take a deep breath and tell him. You must share the feelings u might have such as anger, anxiety or excitement
You cannot keep this to urself bcoz u think he might run away
U were both involved, why exclude him now?
2006-07-03 03:45:34 · answer #6 · answered by Neoza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait 18 years and then collect child support from him.
2006-07-03 07:01:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him till you are 100% sure..you dont want to scare him for nothing.
If you find out you are then (CONGRATS!!) Just be honest and strait up..tell him the deal and try to work things out..I always find it best to just be strait up.
2006-07-03 03:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
READ THIS INFRONT OF HIM: i'm pregnant.
2006-07-03 03:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by A-Town Soulja 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋