What do you consider a sexy night with your woman? Please, give details and only serious answers. I am trying to plan an unforgetable evening for my husband as he has recently had back surgery and I want to show him how much I adore him and how much of a turn on he is to me...maybe I could "entertain" him but could use some ideas...please help me and thank you. PS: I'm not good a "dirty" talk only because I'm afraid of sounding dumb! Any suggestions on how to get past this?
2006-07-02 20:11:57 · 12 answers · asked by MaHaa 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
La_Belle....too funny and totally correct!
2006-07-03 01:34:50 · update #1
About the dirty talk: Get lost in the moment. The heat of great sex. Take it all in, use all your senses. Hear it, really listen to everything going around. Think about what's happening. Spill out everything filthy you can think of, let him know. The tempo will go faster. Take your time at first but fire away. Once you get used to dirty talk it will change sex forever.
About the erotic evening: Make sure to break a sweat. I know one of the craziest memories I have of my ridiculously worthless ex is we had some knock down drag out sex and it was phenomenal. She would be riding me in a chair and she would lick the sweat off of me because that was kinky to her. Make it as physical as you can with his back surgery hopefully healing. Let your hands roam freely and just make it messy sex. Throw things around, don't wipe off saliva, don't dry off sweat, just stay all over each other. Smother him, but in a good way. The dirty talk should kick in now and when that happens you're going to blow his mind. If you don't talk dirty to him hardly ever then that is all he needs to make it the best night for him because it's something brand new. Make sure you're looking hot too. Some guys love make-up on girls, if he's that guy make yourself look great. I'm all about the lingerie so make sure you match and it's looking great. Don't forget about foreplay and dedicate AT LEAST thirty minutes to it because nothing makes sex hotter than tons of foreplay. Get off the wall with it, use your imagination, or some items from the kitchen (caramel, whip cream, anything messy and fun). Now that will be erotic. Good luck sweetie!
2006-07-02 20:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you dont need to talk dirty. I'm sure your husband will love to get attention from you. I'm not sure if he's an outdoor guy. but you can preferably have an indoor evening.......... right at your place.......
And yes, sex is definitely on the list..... maybe towards the end, after you've created the right mood with the right kinda music and lights...
Make sure you create a good enough environment that will compel him to make the first move..... and that way you'll be sure that he's having a great time :)
2006-07-03 03:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Rishi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's like talking to the deaf. Very, very few know themselves and are less qualified to give a sound advice. As a romantic lady I'd say do what's romantic to you either way he'll appreciate it. About the dirty talk just go for it they love that.
2006-07-03 03:15:55 · answer #3 · answered by La_Belle_LadyR99 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, your willingness to give him such a night is actually a great start.
Most men like their woman to act as a b*tch in the sack. It's not really about what you will do specifically but your state of mind in doing it. Obviously try to do things which are not too usual for the both of you, but most of all do it with spontaneity and with the strong desire to be kinky.
Hope this helps.
2006-07-03 03:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by Steaming emotions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make Your Self More Glamour And Sexy Dress
2006-07-03 03:16:41 · answer #5 · answered by abrly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that I like in a woman is a clean spirit, a loving heart, and a belief in Christ. My girl friend and I just cuddle, nothing more.
2006-07-03 03:15:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
in view of the fact that he is recuperating from a back surgery, the best u could provide him on the road of recovery would be to nourish him with UTMOST TENDER CARING LOVE - so that in you he receives the much needed STRENGTH, SUSTENANCE & SOCCUR!
God Bless both of you and with very best wishes :)
2006-07-03 03:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by blessed_one_male 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on my mood...
A nice little striptease always makes the moment fun... Swaying to a latin beat... As the woman moves, she touches herself very intimately... Then starts to undress me, slowly, kissing each patch of skin she exposes...
Anything else, just ask... ;)
2006-07-03 03:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're not already sexy to him, then you're out of luck. Be honst with him, sincere, and speak from heart. Let him know how much you love and appreciate him and everything that he's done for you.
2006-07-03 03:15:21 · answer #9 · answered by kingsna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u got a acceptional body you could oil yourself up give him a lapdance make him a sandwich turn on a football game and not talk so much
2006-07-03 03:18:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋