I have no problem with her getting married, I like the person that she is getting married to very much. I am wondering if I should go to the wedding, I am invited but I don't know how well I will be received by her life-partner, anyone with experence in this? Also, What is an appropriate wedding gift for a lesbian couple?
2006-07-02 19:51:34 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yea i think you should go to the wedding. You say that you like the person she's getting married to so you shouldnt have any problems with the partner. For a gift i think you should buy something they could use at home. a blender, a toaster, a pots and pans set, etc.
2006-07-02 19:56:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 16⤊ 8⤋
Go to the wedding. I'm sure before you were invited, they discussed your being there. Trust me, if your former wife's girlfriend didn't want you there you wouldn't have been invited lol. Eat cake, have fun and as for a gift, anything will do. You could buy hers and hers towels or bathrobes, candles, or anything in rainbow colors. Find out if they have registered at a department store, and if they have then pick from their list. Vases are nice, dishes are always good, flatware, picture frames,and if you still can't find something.....gift certificates are great, you know how women love to shop!
2006-07-02 20:16:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifaery 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go. This woman broke her commitment to you. Not only did she do that, she is now with a woman. She has changed her life. You have no obligation to be there. She burned you big time. NO need for you to sit in a group of people and feel like the one walked out on. As for a gift. I wouldn't give my X a gift if my life depended on it. Maybe you are alright with this, if you are, you are very amazing and forgiving person.
How about Hers and Hers Towles?
2006-07-02 20:14:59 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i would not go to the wedding. I am a women and if she is getting married two months after you divorced I am willing to bet my life she was cheating. You need to write this off as a very very bad experience and move on....and pray for your ex-wife.
2006-07-02 20:00:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable with yourself,then you should go to the wedding,mingle at the reception,and have a nice time.
(Wedding gifts?) How about a pair of Dildo's,or a Cat-o-nine-tails? (Just kidding!). A gift certificate to a nice department store never fails!.
2006-07-02 20:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Squeakers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a date, hire a date, go to the wedding and have a good time, have them a set of hers & hers towels monogramed.
2006-07-02 20:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by zorahudson@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go give your support . A gift for lesbian couple shouldn't have to be any different then any other couple.
2006-07-02 19:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, It doesn't sound like she just met him / her.
A great gift would be a dildo of coarse, or better yet, A toaster.
After all maybe she only left you because her new Bride /Groom whatever it is, was a better cook.
2006-07-02 20:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by DUMMY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa if she was lesbian she was a failure to keep from the start go see if she like u if not be on ur way they need somthin for afterwards so slip in dont mark ur present and put a dildo in it that will be a laugh
2006-07-02 19:55:33 · answer #9 · answered by shooter_n_her_ass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were invited I think you should go. As far as a gift get them a toaster.
2006-07-02 19:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by laencm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was that a joke? If not, it would be a good one lol. funny stuff. uh oh yeah the question, if its not a joke, then you should,...wait it should be a joke! That was so funny. I wasnt expecting that ending. Wait Im sorry if your serious, get them tupper wear? hahahah o my. I love yahoo! good times...good times...
2006-07-02 20:27:22 · answer #11 · answered by Fearfully & wonderfully made 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋