my boyfriend i like him he tells me he loves me but then again i find him talking and telling other girls how they are hot and he likes them not only do the girls tell me that he has been talking to him but i can see it i dont know what i should do........do i stay with him or dump his ***?
2006-07-02 19:30:58 · 31 answers · asked by pinkflip_16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my boyfriend tells me he loves me but then again i find him talking and telling other girls how they are hot and he likes them not only do the girls tell me that he has been talking to him but i can see it i dont know what i should do and i have stuff to him and told him how much it upseats me but he just still keeps doing it i really dont know what to do cuz i really like him and when we are together i love him so much and he makes me feel special........do i stay with him or dump his ***?
2006-07-02 19:50:19 · update #1
It's a no brainer, dump him.
2006-07-02 19:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by Gorilla Hands 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Boys will be boys, and man will be just boy too. Man is polygamous, so just like a bee, like to fly flowers to flowers, till the heart does not speak. So, man, or boy, the importance is to lay you.
They tell you, that love you, to impress you, and put you on your back, or what ever...If you are not quick enough, might the other girl will be. After all, not every girl looks for love, and commitment, and boys really NOT ready for marriage till at least age 25. More riped is better. Man must learn before marriage, that sex is NOT the most important thing in relationship, and that takes time. Foe some man takes to understand this fact till the riped age of 50. Some, who has experience, and soul, will find out before, and will settle and stay faithful. In this term I talk about the average boy. There are some real spirits and class, but now days very few.
2006-07-03 02:43:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From past experiences most guys just like attention. Him telling you he loves you could be the true feeling he feels for you, but having the interest of other females makes him feel confident; more like he is Gods gift to women. You should confront him and tell him what you have been told and what you have seen, tell him how it makes you feel, and also let him know that if it doesn't stop that the relationship can not work. If he really loves you then he will do as you ask and stop making you have to question y'all relationship. You also have to take in that girls will lie, sometimes the details you get are lies or the stretch of the real truth. Just sit down with him and let him know what is going on, your feelings, and what needs to happen. If he doesn't care then move on, you are to good for him any way.
2006-07-03 02:43:37 · answer #3 · answered by justalilbirdie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they are boys. They think differently than you do. You are looking for love, while they are looking for sex. Lots and lots of sex. Sometimes they grow up, but sometimes they never do. You said that you can see what he's doing, so he doesn't respect you very much if he is being blatant about it. I would look elsewhere, personally. I'm sure there are a lot of boys that would love to go out with you, and no one else. The choices you make when you are young are usually to go out with someone who is hot and popular. Look for someone who is hot and not so popular, you'll probably find a better catch that way. Remember, the nerdy guys make more money when they get older...and they are much smarter, and usually a lot more confident in themselves and don't need to make notches in their bedposts to count their worth.
2006-07-03 02:41:12 · answer #4 · answered by Tracey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP HIM
Some not so bright girl might believe him, I've heard this from guys that had a kid on the way! Lucky I found out before they told me their lies, They pretended to be totally unattached. Always looking to see if they can get something better than what they have, jerks.
2006-07-03 02:32:26 · answer #5 · answered by duuh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of us would do some like that. If I'm with the lady that got me sprung then I'mma behave the way I should.
So I guess he just doesn't love you that much. Don't worry though 'cause there are so many brothers out there who would appreciate you.
2006-07-03 02:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have caught him doing it, then why are still with him? Honey you knew the answer way before you asked this question.
Dump him. Find another and be glad you found this out before you made a serious commitment to him. Good Luck!
2006-07-03 02:35:41 · answer #7 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reccomend asking him why he's doing it. Is he just flirting with them? OR is he all up on them trying to get something he shouldn't? If it's the previous, remind him that you two are together and that it upsets you. If it is the latter, remind him that he is now alone and needs to find a new partner to keep him company on the curb.
2006-07-03 02:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jacob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha i think u should dump his *** because you should deserve a guy that says i love you or like you or whatever and mean it. and there is going to be alot of guys out there for you to date so i think you should dump him...good luck
2006-07-03 02:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All Boys tell you what they think you want to hear just to get in your pants. So just play their same game to your advantage. Dump His butt in front of his friends to teach him a lesson not to mess with you.
You are too good for him, respect yourself Sister!!
2006-07-03 02:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly,TX 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer.... He is a jerk. I agree kick him to the crub no girl in her right mind should ever have to endure anything like this when there are a billions upons billions of other guys out there
2006-07-03 02:35:31 · answer #11 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋