What are signs my husband is cheating?

Question

In the past we had a great intimate life. For the last couple years he NEVER initiates. He works a lot. But, he just seems different.

Answer 1

That doesn't mean he is having an affair. It just means he is working a lot and he is tired. He could be getting bored as well. That does not mean that he does not love you, it just means he needs a reminder on why he loves you.
Try setting up something romantic. Maybe grab some things at an adult novelties shop. Start dating again. Set a day once or twice a month that you will go out and have a nice evening together.
You both could just be stuck in a rut and need to get out. Everyones relationship slows down at some point and everyone questions the trust of the other. You just have to try and pull it out of that hole and make it new again.

Answer 2

His working enviroment , age, andhealth maybe factors. Do you ever initiate. does he drink alot of alcohal or does he seem remote or depressed. does he feel like he is working for nothing.
If he has improve his apperance, or talks quietly on the phone or spends alot of time on the computer or seems to be short of cash he may be cheating. Sometimes a husband wants his wife tto take charge in the bedroom . make sure he not suffering from depression. have a date night without the kids. good luck.

Answer 3

Maybe you want to try and talk to him. Express to him your feelings about you relationship. Make sure he understands that you are concerned about the lack of intimacy between you two.

Sometimes couples become so use to each other that we forget to keep the passion alive. If talking does not work then try a counselor who can help you two talk to each other.

I hope everything works out. Good Luck!

Answer 4

His actions towards u are angry,never calls,loss of the hugs and kisses,late nites,if he has a cell phone its ringing all hours of the day and nite.but if he is you will have the gut feeling already girl ,follow him and check him out for yourself,don't just sit there find out and confront him face to face what the problem is,get it out in the open before its to late to save the marriage OK.

Answer 5

by now you should know his sex cycle, his scent, his routine. if his kiss is different, how he treats you or talks to you, secret phone calls, working late, hanging out with his friends more than you. tell you what try to pop up on him. if he works late or changes a date with you, surprise him by going where he says he will be with a picnic dinner or lunch in hand for an excuse and try to catch him in the act. remember this if you go searching for something you will find something make sure your ready to get your answer. you need to wow him in the bed room and make him crave you again. remind him what he is coming home to.

Answer 6

I guess you can know if he's more conservative...I'm not really sure, but I think that's a sign...But from what I've read, you should ask something like, "my friend's husband has been doing..." and see if you can get 'advice', and go from that.

Answer 7

Sounds serious. I think he might be involve with some one at work....try asking him and tell him that you still need his love and attention.SAy it lovingly.Good luck.

Answer 8

change in his actions as well calls he tells you was the wrong number and his clothes see if he dresses different . and check his paystub the hours on it . my opion?

Answer 9

If his mistress calls you and says he left his underwear at her house...he's cheating.

Answer 10

You have answered your own question.(he just seems different)