how can i get a boy to notice the real me?

Question

all most every guy i have gone out with has only dated me for me big boobs!!!

Answer 1

Do every thing you can to draw attention away from your chest size. Dress to conceal your chest and see who still wants to know you.

I know, you being young, this isn't any easy thing to do, but approach it as your own little social experiment and try it for a while.

See who acts differently when your chest isn't the first thing they notice. Set a time period to try this little experiment and see what happens. Wear the most concealing clothes you can during this time. (Maybe summer isn't the time to try this)

You may be surprised at the results. All too often, girls are really dressing (and showing off too much) to compete with other girls.

Always be aware of who is making the most eye contact, even with your girlfriends.

Answer 2

This is definitely what is known as a high class problem. If you have a whole lot of boys hanging around you because they like your boobs, then you probably have the luxury of being more selective. Put your personality out there by talking about your interests and passions and see which ones are feigning interest (i.e. nodding while sneaking a look at your rack) and which ones are genuinely intrigued by what you have to say. You'll be able to tell the difference pretty quickly.

Answer 3

That's kinda hard to do, as most guys just care about the way that a girl looks.
You can either try to find a guy online (and never show him full-body pics of you), but be aware of perverts. You can also avoid all guys that care about your boobs, and eventually you will find someone who really likes you for what you are. Sometimes, they may be closer than it seems, you may simply not notice it!

Answer 4

This is coming from a guy who is a boobs man himself. Everyone takes full advantage of whatever nature has "endowed" them with (whatever it may be). Guys do that and girls do that. IF you want a man NOT to notice you because of your breast size and you want him to see into your eyes (instead of at your...top) then simple, don't dress to reveal your breast size. Wear loose clothing or something. Don't accentuate them. It can be pretty hard for a guy to ignore them if they are just in his face, you know. And trust me, you will find somebody, who will honestly like you...for you.

You get a guy to notice you by not letting him notice your boobs.

I may be fascinated...by big things...but if I can't keep an intelligent conversation going on for more than 2 minutes with her, I don't care if she is pumped full of silicon or just real natural fat. I walk away.

Answer 5

well, show him the real you- show him that the person inside is much better than the person on the outside- hopefully if he sees that, then you having big boobs will only be a perk compared to who you are.

Answer 6

Just go about you're daily life, if someone finds you attractive, it will have been for the way you act, not the things you do. Don't give up either, in other words, just wait for the perfect guy to come and eventually he will.

Answer 7

You need to like yourself first. A boy worth your time will notice your intelligence, your self-confidence, moral courage, and inner-beauty more than your boobs.

Answer 8

Start noticing boys who don't flock around you. Fact will be that your "assets" will be the first thing any guy sees, it is up to you to show them that there is a great girl behind them they'll need to get to know before they will be able to get to them.

Good luck

Answer 9

I'd dress more conservatively and cover your assets. Continue to do the things you like to do. If you meet someone along the way, who shares the same goals, values, etc., then you know that person likes you for who you are.

Answer 10

um.. find a guy online without showing him a picture of your whole body I guess. Or maybe find a guy who likes little boobs, other than that. good luck, you'll need it.