2006-07-02 18:31:35 · 15 answers · asked by tina 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Work hard to show her that you are serious and professional. Try to avoid doing things that stereotype yourself as a ditz or as dumb. Don't be overly flirtatious at work. Friendly is fine, but some girls tend to overdo it. Being professional means being at work on time, everyday, not taking overly long lunches or breaks or sneaking out early. It means not talking too much about your private personal life, such as your dating/boyfriend/husband etc. It means not being a gossip, particularly about your boss. I was a boss and believe me, the boss WILL hear about it from somebody. Don't spend time surfing the 'net or e-mailing your friends from work. Do that on your own time at home. Your e-mail can be tracked at work. You would not BELIEVE the things that I read on my employees' e-mail. People have been terminated for that kind of thing.
Meet your deadlines and your accountabilities and objectives and try to go above and beyond, if at all possible. Be innovative and creative and try to keep in mind what is best for the company and what will help to improve the bottom line.
2006-07-02 18:48:45 · answer #1 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you think she hates you because you are attractive then she's probably jealous of your looks. The best thing to do is flatter her by making nice comments about her clothes her hair and express how much you admire her, wishing you could be like her etc. etc. This way she won't feel inferior in your presence even though she is your superior. Once you have won over her friendship she will see for herself how good your work is. Good luck it's not as easy for a pretty girl out there as people think. You are either too goo looking for the job or too pretty to be bright enough.
2006-07-02 18:47:29 · answer #2 · answered by dinkydidawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Don't understand why women are so catty, you are your own worst enemies in the workplace. Just do you job as best you can and don't bother with the "she hates cause I'm beautiful" crap, she probably hates that you flaunt your looks or attitude of I'm so pretty around the office instead of doing you job. I've seen it before in my workplace and with women I've been with. Your being pretty does get the work done and her not liking you because of it shouldn't effect your performance, if it does go to HR or speak to her about it or get another job or like the person said before take her job out perform her.
2006-07-02 21:09:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
some women are merely jealous because they prefer that. they prefer what they dont have. besides the undeniable fact that it doesnt advise their ugly. possibly this lady somewhat is eye-catching. It doesnt remember what hair colir you've! Hair colour shouldnt anticipate something. each and every lady is eye-catching in her own particular way. You dont could be a blonde to be eye-catching. Black hair, pink hair,brown hair are all eye-catching. looks would in person-friendly words get you to this point. It doesnt remember what hair colour you've. in case your a noticeably searching blonde yet you've the ugly *** personality like Drina, then who's gonna love you?? Hair colour doesnt ascertain how eye-catching someone is!! So human beings want to end basing attractiveness on hair colour, and commence searching at attractiveness from the interior!!! attractiveness is skin-deep.
2016-10-14 01:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's feeling insecure, or threatened...
Do you have a boss above her who's male? Maybe she's afraid of him promoting you over her because of looks...
It's a hard situation - but the best thing to do is probably to try to side with her more...go the hard yard with your work so she can see that looks aside, you a) have ability and b) are working hard for her...she'll feel less threatened. It sounds like sucking, I know, but I'd say above all...she feels under threat - so the best thing you can do is ease that threat...by letting her see your loyalty to her and your work... :-) make sure you approach her first, not people more superior for help...little things like that...maybe approach her and ask if your work is up to standard and if not, what you can do? It's hard to hate someone when they approach you and ask how they can help you!
2006-07-02 18:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to appreciate her.
Verbally.
Compliment her laptop, her accent, her fragrance, anything in the world.
Let her feel good abt being with u.
She's on an emotional plane.
So, now , untill she's comfortable with u, nothing's gonna make her notice ur hard work.
Go ahead, get a rapport.
All the Best.
2006-07-02 22:37:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldn't show that you're pretty, and avoid talking about it before her.
You should give your work more attention and to draw her attention to your work, not to your prettiness.
Give her some reasonable compliment regarding her work performance and how she is thoughtful, or how you feel lucky to work with her, because you will find the support .
2006-07-02 18:54:06 · answer #7 · answered by egymah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
realize that she hates you just becouse you are pretty and release yourself. You should not give a f..k about what she thinks. She should apreciete your work if you are ok and not hate you becouse you are pretty. mabe she is scared, i would be if i would fell thretened
2006-07-03 06:05:54 · answer #8 · answered by bianca_gr1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try focusing more on your work, and less on your looks. I'm not trying to be rude, but if you excel at your job, she will notice your effort.
2006-07-09 08:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by grandm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be jealous and keep doing your work if she doesn't appreciate your work and you know it's perfect then report her.
2006-07-04 20:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by Hotmom1216 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋