I am amale to female transgendered person living in south western Pennsylvania. I am looking to find an attractive woman to go out with that is attracted to me.....Can anyone tell me where to look?
2006-07-02 18:30:03 · 8 answers · asked by lori_is_fun 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Have you tried your local gay organizations? You know instead of the bar or online, you might locate your local gay oganizations and go to the functions and such and from there meet someone that you like or network it out from there.
2006-07-02 18:34:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi. Since you're male to female transgendered, gay bars may be the worst places to look...or the best, depending on where you live. I would suggest looking through local gay/lesbian/bi/transgendered socieities. I know that in Chicago there IS a transgender group, and using Chicago as an example, I assume that there are other groups that would meet your social and romantic needs/desires. I think that the internet would be your best option and you should probably google dating sites that are particularly friendly to a variety of people...not just straights or gays, but pretty much EVERYBODY.
At any rate, have fun being you. If other people SEE you having fun then they're gonna be drawn to you, and if you were in Chicago, I'd say go out on the town with me and I'd help you look for someone. But since you're way over there in Pennsylvania, I'm gonna say just get together with your friends, put on your boogie shoes and go have some fun. You put your wish out there and there are people like me who are hoping that you get all the good stuff that you're wishing for!
2006-07-03 01:56:05 · answer #2 · answered by chipchinka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie, I'm still trying to figure that out myself....lol
but i guess, for starters, we need to make a conscious effort to go out and woo 'em gals~!
dress to kill and just go out to a gay bar and charm the pants off them! just be yourself, you'll be fine.
or if you are shy, you can try dating sites and search for people around your area, get to know them 1st before you meet them...... however, i do not think that is a foolproof plan cuz you want to be able to see and judge and interact (i know i sound shallow here, but what i mean is, you need to interact with her face to face to know if you like her or not, same interests?likes and dislikes? - the Internet is filled with posers and i just don't want you to be disappointed when you find out the person you've been talking to is Yoda - ish )
no offense to Yoda fans out there.
good luck girl!
2006-07-03 00:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Rainbow nation 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My friend met someone at a GLBT group. That was in New Zealand though. You might want to look for some groups where you live.
2006-07-02 18:33:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going to nightclubs, even in the parks, or just socializing
with different people, also in the restaurants.
2006-07-02 18:38:31 · answer #5 · answered by LOURDES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should fix your self up make your self look pretty then take some friends and go to a gay bar
2006-07-02 18:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by shadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try a gay bar or night club
2006-07-02 23:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by orange_crush_05 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
internet dating sites, groups or meetings, lesbian pubs/nightclubs
2006-07-02 18:32:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋