well... im not allowed to date yet but i've been in this relationship for about 5 months... well i think im in love! yep... young and in love. what should i do? keep the relationship going?
2006-07-02 18:27:37 · 13 answers · asked by cassie 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
i honestly think i am in love... hes great to me and my best guy frieds best friend. I love him... and am head over heels! im only 15.. though?
2006-07-02 18:34:20 · update #1
not just phisically... not at alll.... just emotionally! he respects me and my thoughts. honestly.
2006-07-02 18:36:32 · update #2
maggieam!... thank you! so much i needed that... im 15 and a half!
2006-07-02 18:41:08 · update #3
Cassie, you didn't mention your age, but I am suspecting it is under 16 if your mom does not allow you to date. You asked should you keep the relationship going? YOU BET! It is entirely possible to be in love at a very young age... even 12 or 13. I know you will hear a lot of people say, "It is only puppy love," or "She's too young to know what love is." But, young ladies like you do feel love, and it's wonderful, isn't it?
I will tell you it is NOT the same love as older adults feel, but it is real nonetheless. Do what you can to maintain what you've had--- 5 months is a long time for young adolescents. However, DO continue to follow your mother's rules as well. It sounds corny to say, but they usually do know best! If you have lasted as a "couple" for five months without dating, you have done something right. You have evidently found ways through school and community activities...plus the phone and computer, I am sure... to keep this thing going.
Good luck Cassie! Love is a wonderful thing, so enjoy it!
2006-07-02 18:38:29 · answer #1 · answered by MaggieAmI 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Honey ,
Please at 15 you really do not know what LOVE is. You are just beginning to know yourself and figure out things for your self.
You don't know me and you are just asking for all of our opinions and that is great. But think about it if you are asking us if you should still see this guy you already know that the answer is NO NO NO.
We cannot justify the relationship for you.
At 15 I thought I was in love also, my best friends brothers friend.
I got pregnant, he left ( go figure) I have a beautiful ( now)successful 24 year old daughter but let me tell you It was not easy. I did graduate high school which most do not but i was Lucky to have a great mom who stuck by me.
feel free to contact me privately if you want.
hope this helps.
2006-07-02 18:47:50 · answer #2 · answered by nancy_pttrsn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u kno that u "fall in luv" over 30 times before u find the right person. Second, wat the hell r u thinking, sneaking around w/ a guy b/hind ur mom's back. not good 4 ur relationship w/ her. u didnt say how old u r, but cmon. if ur mom doesnt allow u 2 date, u cant b older than 15 or 16. there is plenty of time to date around when ur older. just b safe and take care of urself.
2006-07-02 18:33:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-01 03:06:20 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love. Nope, not in love! The fact that you're rebelling to be in the relationship says to me that part of the reason why you "love" him so much is because it's exciting and dangerous.
Tell your parents what's going on. The sooner, the better. You'll be caught eventually, and it's better that they hear about it directly from you.
2006-07-02 18:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should keep your relationship going (see him @ school and talk on the phone with him) stay innocent as long as you can)....and please obey your mom. I went through the same rules with my mom... and I was very much in love with my high school boyfriend....and I thought he was in love with me(were together from 9th-11th grade) until one day his attention went to another girl who could date....she got pregnant, they got married, and I was hurt!!! But luckily for me I was obedient to my mom and my next boyfriend found me and he stuck by my side until I could date.....we have been married for 10 1/2 years now and he takes good care of me......So the moral of the story is be obedient to your mom but stay in your relationship....time will tell if it is worth being with him/her or not......good things come to those who wait....
2006-07-02 18:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie48 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not allowed to date either i'm still trying to let my mom let
me have group dates. usually i always say the thing everybody hates but i would keep it. your young and in love you don't know how nice it is to be in love and dating.
i haven't had any relationship with a guy but i do know what it feels like to be in love.
2006-07-02 18:36:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old u r but if u think u love this person the u should keep the relationship going
good luck!
2006-07-02 18:31:53 · answer #8 · answered by Britt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What type of relationship you want ? It is friendly or physically. If it is physically than you have to think it over.
Dating means to understand each other.
You better decide/
2006-07-02 18:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by geekay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, bc if ur in love then y not.
2006-07-02 18:30:37 · answer #10 · answered by fight2partyhard 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋