2006-07-02 17:52:48 · 24 answers · asked by Kabir 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
dont try to impress anyone...this is your life...lets do what makes you feel happy and perfect...
let people loves you for what you are
2006-07-02 18:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kaliffax 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can't and really shouldn't want to try. You would end up being a shallow mirror of what those around you wish to see in another person and it is usually someone like them, but on a lower level. You will never develop a true sense of self, and won't ever accomplish meaningful goals
My advice right down your likes and dislikes and compare the two..you just might catch a glimpse of who you should be!
Good Luck
wanderer
2006-07-02 18:29:02 · answer #2 · answered by wanderer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying so much about other's reactions. Life is more than a popularity contest. So be honest, and open - and most of all willing to learn. You may disagree with what others want to "teach" you, (missionaries are mostly looking for support) but if you listen you will at least know who they are, and you can respond honestly. Never be afraid to appear foolish - that's how we learn. But don't simply take everyone else's word for it. They are as uncertain as you are. So be compassionate but do not simply accept all and sundry, any more than you expect to be accepted by all. An intelligent life is selective. Aim only to be accepted for who you are, by those you respect, and try to grow wiser (so avoid dogma)
2006-07-02 18:02:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't, there will always be ppl that for no obvious reason dont like you, or are cruel. One way to be a likeable person, though, is to try and think posistivly. And most importantly love yourself more than anything. It has gotten me through many difficult times, it will work for you.
2006-07-02 17:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well thats impossible. not everyone will like you no matter what you do you can be the nicest person in the world and some will hate that you are sooo sicky sweety gooody two shoes and hate you for it or just because they are jelious. different people like different things that goes for sports, food, colors, etc even other people. some people admire others who are aggressive while others lothe the same person for the same exact reason another admired them. hey even Jesus had enimies right? lol
2006-07-02 18:25:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will never succeed in having everyone like or love you, because there are always people who just don't like other people. You can make yourself likeable by being friendly and courteous and not insulting others; but most important is to be yourself and be real.
2006-07-02 17:57:37 · answer #6 · answered by surlygurl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice to everyone, no matter how much they are mean to you. Always be truthful. If someone really ticks you off, don't let them be aware of you dislike. If they think that you like them, they'll be nice to you in response to your kindness. Of course if they are taking advantage of you kindness, then you need to lay down some affirmative action.
2006-07-02 18:02:53 · answer #7 · answered by TheSilverBeetles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound more like a curse to me.
If (even if it were possible)you were to behave in a manner that cause everyone to like you you would never become your own person.
It would be a sad life that you would have because you would never be able to explore your own potential your own joys and aspirations.
2006-07-02 18:01:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no possible way for every one to like you there is always for some reason or another that some one will not like you so act like yourself and find yourself a group of people that will like you for you because they are all the people you will ever need
2006-07-02 18:29:40 · answer #9 · answered by black_rose8666 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is impossible to live your life to the satisfaction of all others, so live your life to satisfy you. Be kind to others, try to make something, share, and be understanding. To understand does not mean to condone, but to realize we all have our own lives and priorities, so we all can't have our own way. Good luck to you.
2006-07-02 18:08:34 · answer #10 · answered by jelesais2000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love yourself first, always respect others as well as yourself. see goodness in everyone and treat them as a friend. a smile can move mountains. be polite.never take your blessings for granted laugh and play every chance you get...........just live your life all the rest will follow............may you always walk in beauty/love/light/laughter timothy
2006-07-02 20:10:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋