2006-07-02 17:48:50 · 14 answers · asked by just a girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Maybe he isn't ready he wants to make love to you slowly so enjoy it.
2006-07-02 17:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by angel_64 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he could be taking the anti-depressant Paxil, it has that effect on me. My wife and I spent 3 hours making love last night, with breaks for water of course, and I never did ejaculate. No I am not lying you could ask a doctor if you need to know. I just don't want you to listen to everyone on this page and think that he is screwing someone else if he is not. Of course there are other possabilities like he does kegal exercises alot, or just naturally can hold off awhile. It is normal that when a guy is with a woman in the beginning of the relationship that it will not take long to finish, the newness and all but after we are alot more comfortable we can hold off for longer. So the sex gets better the longer you are together. If their is a large difference in time recently I would bet on medication, you can wack off beforehand and that will help also but I always thought it was better to get the first one out of the way as part of foreplay then have alot of fun the second or third time. Hope that helps.
2006-07-03 01:01:40 · answer #2 · answered by irateone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a lot of reasons. Medications or pot smoking can cause numbness in the area, which means he cannot feel enough to ejaculate. It could also be an earlier ejaculation, but that varies, sometimes that has the opposite effect, making them more sensitive causing them to ejaculate faster. It could also be something on your end. Some women that have just had children or have a wider canal or some women produce more fluids which could cause less friction, making it harder for him to feel. He could also be sneaking pills such as Viagra or the over the counter supplements like Stamina RX to keep himself going, thinking he is pleasing you.
Really it could be anything. All of this sounds like a lack of communication. Why don’t you ask him? Maybe you just lucky and found a man that can actually have sex without coming in 2 minutes flat.
2006-07-03 01:32:12 · answer #3 · answered by charice266 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The amount of excitement is what really makes the difference. If its been weeks since having sex the guy will probably be quite excited or if the woman is someone he is really into but for what ever reason its how excited he is doesn't matter if he just masturbated a day ago or not its what turns him on the most which is what excites him. Boring sex or routine sex vs. someone new or some place different just something to make it exciting.
2006-07-03 01:11:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The amount of time it takes a man to "come" varies from person to person. Personally, my times have varied from a couple of minutes to 45 minutes or longer. He could be trying to make it enjoyable, but I doubt its because he has been "coming" a lot. Either way, you should enjoy the length. It gives you more time to enjoy the situation.
2006-07-03 00:59:59 · answer #5 · answered by SeDEUCEr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well every man is different. If it takes him a long time, then good for him! Also, if he doesn't come at all sometimes, you might want him to see a doctor to see if it is normal.
2006-07-03 00:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Thomas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on my personal experience, if I ejaculate (by whatever means) anywhere between 1 to 2 days before having intercourse, it delays my ejaculation during intercourse (sometimes up to a half hour or more).
2006-07-03 00:53:38 · answer #7 · answered by thetonik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he could've had sex already that day, or close to that time. the second time or third , usually takes longer. Sometimes a round 2 is needed for the female just to get her satisfaction.
2006-07-03 00:52:00 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a man comes, his hormone levels go down a bit for a day.
2006-07-03 03:52:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be because he just is not that into having sex at that time, or he has a lot of stress that might be bothering him, or it could be that he is trying to take a long time so he can please you , ether way the longer the better lol
2006-07-03 00:54:26 · answer #10 · answered by coolwhipping 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋