I think i dont want to be with my husband it might be that we dont have anything in common anymore i love him i know that aint the problem but i am confused i dont want to hurt him and i'm not intrested in another man any soggestions from any married women??
2006-07-02 17:39:07 · 17 answers · asked by morena06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Such a hard question to help you with honey. How long are you married? Any children?....email me. Married for 23 years. Yes, I think about leaving sometimes. How it would be to have someone different. We should talk. Suzanne
2006-07-02 17:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say this all the time. Pray and let the Lord lead you but marriage is a union by God. If there is no cheating or anything else going on you will be in the wrong and by the bible you can't get married again, in God's eyes. Talk to your spouse and tell him how you feel. Maybe you two could get counseling. Remember the grass isn't always greener on the other side. Think about what you're doing.
2006-07-03 00:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Cuddles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people get like this and some times it passes,perhaps it might be your not getting enough attention from him this makes us feel this way sometimes,make sure that it isnt a hormonal thing just so you can rule that out,you could try a few things to get your relationship back on track but it nothing works and no sparks come flying back then it may be that you have fallen out of love with your husbund i know you still love him but your not in love with him its two different things,,you cant think about not hruting a person in the long run your doing him a favour by letting him go of a loveless marriage so he can be free to move on also
2006-07-03 00:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are times that many women and men feel that they have nothing in common. A lot has to do with communicaiton and if you are not really "talking" then you need to express your feelings. If there is another problem like sex, then that can be addressed as well. Many couples become to comfortable with one another and take the other for granted.
2006-07-03 01:53:48 · answer #4 · answered by Saul S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a married women but i am a separated man i wish i would have never left her. I felt the same way you do right now and yes for the first month i was relived to be gone now i miss her like crazy i wished i would of stayed and fought threw the hard times we were having instead of what i think now was the lazy way out. try and talk to him and figure it out it might be worth the fight if you still love him and he loves you.
2006-07-03 01:43:51 · answer #5 · answered by grayling17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's people like you that have ruined the sanctity of marriage. You have nothing in common anymore so now you just want to QUIT!! How about trying counseling? You think the concept of marriage is just something you can throw away like a piece of trash for such a dumb reason.
2006-07-03 00:51:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that all the time and I'm pretty sure he thinks the same thing about me, it's our love that keeps us together because God knows we have nothing in common.
Don't rely on your husband to make things better you come up with different ways for the two of you to spend time together, start dating each other and never forget why you fell in love in the first place.
God put the two of you together for a reason trust in him and he'll give you everything you need to make it through.
2006-07-03 00:48:40 · answer #7 · answered by 2smomma77 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can tell you from a man's perspective. Men and Women grow apart and develop different intersts. One partner may still like sex and be more physical the other just wants a warm fuzzy relationship. Just be honest with your husband.If you have grown so far apart it may be time you each find a more compatible mate.
2006-07-03 00:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by stratisnj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are, whether or not you have children, whether or not you have sought counseling, whether or not you and he talk, what your love life is like, how long you have been married yadayadayada. Marriages change, and being with the same person all the time looses its spark, and you might just be bored....... have no idea what you suggest
2006-07-03 00:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am reading this book to solve some similar problems in my marriage. Seems to have some good suggestions. You may find an answer in it.
The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work :
2006-07-03 02:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by Cimmerian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋