Should i tell my mom and ask them to get divorce
2006-07-02 16:41:20 · 16 answers · asked by Danni 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That is true ,
Women and Men make mistakes, and learn from them.
You don't know , what brought him to that point.
Your Mum isn't silly, she will find out, if she hasn't already.~!
Just most parents don't tell there children what is going on in there personal life,s.!
They may have already talked and worked it out ~ !
For you to get involve and worse ask them to divorce ,~!
Your out of line.
You are the child,
They are the ones married ~!
They will work out whats best for them. ~!
My Advice ,
stay out of it.
~*~*~*~*~Peace.
2006-07-02 16:51:08 · answer #1 · answered by Brat-tett & Brat Pack's 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
true, everyone make mistake but most of us have remorse once we see the consequences...Well is your dad repeating the mistake of cheating over and over or is he an one time offender? I would speak with your father about talking this matter with your mother.
Depend on your parents relationship, they may work it out or divorce. Either way, it is their decision, not yours. I would suggest trying to stay out of it and just being there for your mom if she wants support.
This is a sticky situation. Every marriage is different. Some may be devastated if their mate cheats while other turn the blind eye without speaking about it.
2006-07-03 00:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by girlboyinlove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray on it, but put your Dad on blast. Call him out; tell him he owes it to you to make you understand why he would do something like that. You as his daughter deserve better than for the role model of a good man in your life to do something so irresponsible. I think you should tell your mother, and you all need to sit down and discuss it. The entire family.
2006-07-02 23:46:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl i had that when i was young but it was mum was cheating not dad I found out on her cellphone love notes from her lover so I went and give da the phone but he said to me he already knew people are talking about it so I didn't want dad know that I knew before him that will make me a bad person why didn't I tell him first but anyway he already knew so if I would you should tell mum and then let them deal with it mum needs to know I didn't want my dad to keep living with someone I know that doesn't love him back maybe you don't want your mum to happen the same thing try and talk with dad first tell he has to stop because you are going to tell mum and you don't want to see your mum to be left alone when he feels like he need to leave for the other woman with out any explantion for what he had done to her and you.now it a good time before it too late for your mum and dad to slove the problem.
2006-07-02 23:59:44 · answer #4 · answered by Molly B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i had a problem sort of like yours my mom kinda cheated on my dad i never told my dad i let my mom do it but finally they got divorced and both are living happier lives so umm you should wait and see if he tells her if he dont and is acting all lovey dovey on your mom you should tell her she so needs to know and the thing he said all men dont make mistakes just some are stupid and **** up
2006-07-02 23:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom: yes. Ask them to get a divorce: no. That's their decision, but she can only make the decision if she has all the facts.
2006-07-02 23:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHHHHHHHHHHH Honey,
U have alot on your shoulders ha?
I wish I knew how old you R??? I would ask your father what kind of morel he has? set down with them both... and try to talk and U be like the adult here... yes everybody makes mistakes. but,
we all have to answer to the lord above, at sometime, HOLD a BIBLE is your hands while talking with them... Is this your real father ? PUT< that Bible in his hands> and let him tell your mother himself...
that way you R not the bad guy here... or being a tattle tail...
WE CAN ALL Say a pray for this family>>>
BEST WISHES TO YOU HONEY!
YOU BE REAL STRONG HERE..............................................
2006-07-03 00:24:44 · answer #7 · answered by Nancy D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your mother. From experience it is very embarrasing when u find out your husband is cheating. Its better comming from aomeone that u love and u know loves u. Be good to ur mom.
2006-07-02 23:45:32 · answer #8 · answered by KAY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your mom know he cheated? if she does maybe you should ask a counseler to come and talk to your parents...if she doesnt know then keep pushing your dad to tell her and then ask them whatever u want
2006-07-02 23:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Silly_racey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom about him cheating on her and they should get a divorce i now how you u fell email me and tell me about what is up in your live
2006-07-02 23:59:57 · answer #10 · answered by mssexyblack93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋